Monday, June 29, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#577

The Polisher Mindset-
Those that get to know what needs to be polished
Those that learn to appreciate what they are polishing
Those that despite any dirt or marks know truly what is being polished
Those that despite any dirt or marks do not give up on polishing
Those that expect nothing in return ,just appreciate the knowledge and experience gained in polishing
Those that look past any dirt or marks but see what the polishing could achieve
Are those who in the end who produce the greatest shine , the purest shine , the clearest shine ..whose brilliance will not easily be dimmed and will shine bright when darkness beckons, privately , in society and nationally
You will give yourself and others a chance at meaningful and lasting joy that ensues despite that which might threaten to rip it asunder
If you are in the polisher mindset you go far past judging people but rather connecting and getting to know people who they truly are ,their strengths etc letting them connect to their true unique light within that has never stopped shining since before Creation
YOU ARE YOUR SOUL,
YOUR SOUL IS YOUR UNIQUE LIGHT..
YOU ARE A PART OF G-D.
.LEARN TO POLISH ALLOWING YOURSELF TO SHINE,
BRINGING OUT THE LIGHT IN OTHERS AND ALL AROUND YOU
CONNECTED TO G-D YOU NEVER LOSE YOUR SHINE
YOU JUST SHINE SO MUCH MORE BRIGHTLY

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#576



Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#575


Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#574

Some say Live intentionally,Some say Live meaningfully,Some say live purposefully,Some say live passionately....all these though fall into the basket of ..Living gratefully

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#573

To quote Rabbi David Aaron" You dont have a soul you are a soul"....your body is a garment for your soul, treat the garment right ,take care of it,acknowledge that it is a garment given to you ,the soul, by the Master Tailor and then eventually the garment will not hinder in any way but highlight the infinite beauty and power of the true you ,your soul

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#572

Imagine if we would focus on what people can do instead of what they cannot
Imagine if we would find beauty in everyone no matter how they look
Imagine if we would build people up instead of tearing them down
Imagine if we would listen ,think and decide without ego
Imagine if we would see the thorns as protecting the beauty of the rose
Imagine the freedom if we made our goodness unconditional
Imagine a world with people looking for the light instead of resigning themselves to darkness
Imagine if we would praise people for the little things so they go on to do big things
The list is endless but dont imagine ..do and then the new world starts with you

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#571

Empirical proof that holding on to grudges , not forgiving helps foster diseases and maintain them.The Torah has told us eons ago to let things go
"you shall not hate your brother in your heart.." Leviticus 19:17
"you shall not take revenge and you shall not bear a grudge.."Leviticus 19:18
and many more verses
Trust in G-d and forgiveness will come easier to you...forgiveness does not mean "that you let someone get away with it" but you are allowing yourself to move forward in healing ,health and positive growth...
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Unforgiveness is classified in medical books as a disease. According to Dr. Steven Standiford, chief of surgery at the Cancer Treatment Centers of America, refusing to forgive makes people sick and keeps them that way.
With that in mind, forgiveness therapy is now being used to help treat diseases, such as cancer.
"It's important to treat emotional wounds or disorders because they really can hinder someone's reactions to the treatments, even someone's willingness to pursue treatment," Standiford explained.
Of all cancer patients, 61 percent have forgiveness issues, and of those, more than half are severe, according to research by Dr. Michael Barry...
"Harboring these negative emotions, this anger and hatred, creates a state of chronic anxiety," he said.
"Chronic anxiety very predictably produces excess adrenaline and cortisol, which deplete the production of natural killer cells, which is your body's foot soldier in the fight against cancer," he explained.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#570

Trust is not the trait of the patsy but the daring of the bold for with trust you can live a full life without being held back ...by that life sucking "but".Trust does not mean ones eyes are closed to any darkness that may be but that you focus on the freedom of the light that is...and no darkness has the stamina against the soul freeing wholesome light that trusting totally in G-D reveals

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#569

Trust is the shield against fear ..for what matters the fear when you trust for you will do what needs to be done despite your fear
So Trust in G-D,believe in the your greatness, your strength within,G-D does ,and then you will see that eventually ,with your daily effort and when G-D deems the moment opportune you will let your fears go and feel the shift from AWKWARD TO AWESOME
You can always take it higher you have G-D within you

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#568


Avi Perez's photo.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#567

Go beyond society's programming then you will find your true self and let go of the minion clone that society has replicated you to be.Leave the herd , then you will hear your true voice and the funny thing is others will too

Monday, June 22, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#565

Acknowledgement is the spiritual/mental optic nerve....you might have sight but only when you acknowledge do you truly see
" A person might be obese but unless they acknowledge that,admit it to themselves they will never truly see it no matter how big they are"

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#564

Dont wait to know that you are G-D forbid dying to fulfill your "bucket list".Your entire life should be your empowering, enriching, potential filling" bucket list" that takes your life out of the bucket into G-D's embrace and the best version of you

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#563

Only when you acknowledge honestly where you are right now are you ready to start going to where you want to or need to go

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#562

Risk the hurt that love might bring for to never want to risk loving means never to wholeheartedly give and whomever does not give how can they truly learn to live.So love G-d's gift of life unconditionally, give it your all ,radiate it and then you might even find it where it ohers have given up and shine bright enough to show others that they have it within them making the world that much brighter

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#561

Awesome
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Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#560

The wider your vision , the more informed and effective your decision

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#559

Fear closes ones mind but not without our permission

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#558

When you feel you cant change whats going on around you postively and meaningfully change how you view whats going on around you and you might just find that whats going on around you might just eventually change because of the ripple effect of your courageous change of view

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#557

When you are unable to govern yourself, you become governed by others- Dr John DeMartini

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#555

The secret to success is not to focus on probability but possibility and with G-D the possibilities are endless

Monday, June 15, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#554

Some say that knowledge is power, I would suggest that who you become with the knowledge you have gained is your true G-d given power

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#553

The secret to success is not to focus on probability but possibility and with G-D the possibilities are endless

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#552

Issues of Temptation or .I.T.
We all face temptation at one level of intensity or another so..its never only you
Temptation for things etc that you know are not what you should give in to is a child of the dominion you have sub consciously or consciously given in a specific or number of areas in your life..to your higher self or to your lower self
Temptation is not a battle of repression,its not about "oh I wish could do that etc"its about rechannelling your urge to your higher self...valuing yourself more
When you learn to value and appreciate the total you and give dominion to your higher self you will realize that you are too important to ever be off duty
Giving in to the temptation you know or you understand you should not is not a tragedy making it the norm,dulling your sensitivity to it is
Falling is not the real issue not realizing you are down or wanting to stay down is
Take comfort in knowing that G-D created you ,knows your inner wars and has given you an obstacle course to greatness.You are wired to handle it and win,you just have to want to and realize that you are worth the unrelenting effort

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#551

Whether one is religiously observant or not giving in to ones baser desires or resigning oneself to the supposed overpowering strength of ones baser desires is the surest way to deny ones higher self ..expression.
When we deny our higher self ...expression then there is only one direction left and that is down.
If our bodies were supposed to lead the way then we would do what our bodies our homo sapien 'animal selves demand and that is focus only on the survival instinct and we would not do anything that contradicts that instinct for survival
YET
We see that so many people religious and not.. do so many things that contradict the survival instinct ,for example
Give beyond ones means at times to the impoverished
Risking our lives for friends and family
Allowing people to gain an advantage over us because we feel they need it more than we do
Soldiers and others giving up their lives to save their comrades
Taking the blame for certain things to keep the peace and move on
Forgiving those that have harmed us etc etc
No matter what you think you believe in people are clearly a lot more than their bodies and for that reason alone allowing our higher selves expression should be an imperative to explore at the very least what could be, how high we could reach
Do yourself a favor and start realizing that your baser desires are not the real you they are just a test to see how much you really want to find ,experience and gift the world with the beautiful Divine true eternal real YOU
Fight for yourself G-D thinks you are worth the effort so should you

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#550

Hope-the Ner Tamid that can never be extinguished
People and Nations give up when they see no hope especially when leaders and others feed that which denies hope
When you take hope away from people you take life away
When you give hope to people you give them a "WHY" and when they connect to that 'WHY" they become unbeatable Juggernauts that no enemy can take down because they will keep coming back ,keep fighting, keep growing until that hope becomes reality
So leaders who take away hope who are "realistically" bleak are not leaders but weak and drain the nation
People who dont deny the present challenges and dangers but never stop injecting and empowering every moment with hope will bring their nation to greatness and make their nation unbeatable no matter what they have to go through
Israels hope has always been G-D that is why after centuries of enduring more than any other nation against all odds, against all empirical data we are still around
For Hope is who we are and hope is G-D for indeed we are all facets of the Reality that is G-D
Time to be the Van Helsing to the hope vampires and shine bright with hope ..the Ner Tamid that can never be extinguished
נצח ישראל לא יישקר

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#549

I heard this Shabbos a beautiful rendition by the chazan of the prayer for our soldiers sung to the moving tune from one of the movies about the legendary Entebbe Raid which pulled the song out of everyone in the congregation
Moved and inspired walking back from Shul I took in the beautiful greenery and buildings popping up everywhere in a Land which just 120 years ago was describe as barren and sparse
Israel has its issues, there is a ton to do but each step I or any other Jew living in Israel takes here is a victorious one and a heavy one as each step carries the weight of our fallen and the generations who never made it here whose tears and sacrifice opened the gates of Heaven and so to the gates of Israel to us
Living what was a dream in the throes of becoming a Reality on the way to the final Redemption Bimhera Beyameinu

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#548

The Possible Impossibility
There are those, and I am one of them, who frequently say if 600 years ago you were to tell people that we would be flying, that travelling to another country would not mean years apart but rather mere hours ,that we could communicate with people not only thousands of miles away but even as far as the moon and we eventually receive data from probes that are now billions of miles away etc ad infinitum, would not those people call you mad or some even burn you at the stake for witchcraft or heresy?
I want to sharpen the point by mixing things up, imagine that all the achievements I have mentioned above and the millions more that could be enumerated were where we were at 600 years ago....now take this in as this is a paradigm shift which then begs the question.. can you even begin to contemplate where we would be right now?....exciting ..amazing...game changing
So that which 600 years ago was impossible has been made possible by us today and if 600 years ago we were instead at where we are at today then today and every day hereafter becomes the possible impossibility
These impossibilities were only achieved because there were people who jumped out of their boxes and dared to believe and transcend what people thought they knew
For what is logic it is merely the extent of what you know or think you know at any one time.600 years ago "logically"noone could communicate with someone thousands of miles away in mere seconds,yet today we get annoyed when the call does not connect quick enough.Logically the sales force tells the new guy you cant sell in December, in winter sales are down people are just not interested thats the way its been for years.The new guy showing his record sales for the "dead" month said'Sorry I did not know I was not supposed to sell" in other words what he knew was that he could sell, he was not imprisoned and poisoned by the complacent resignation of the others who" logically" knew ,you just cant sell much in December.
Lose the blinding cataracts of logic and probability for that all changes when you learn more and open yourself up to more .So be illogical , be uncommon, be unreasonable live in your discomfort zone be open to everything attached to nothing and if that" everything" is G-D you and your life will become no matter your age the possible impossibility

Wednesday, June 10, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#547


Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#546

Some say that knowledge is power, I would suggest that who you become with the knowledge you have gained is your true G-d given power

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#545

Those who crave the limelight are left with the lime when the light dims.Those  who love the beautiful warmth of G-D's light eternal will find the strength to shine even on darkest night

Monday, June 8, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#544

The difference between managing and mastering is stamina.Tap into the unbreakable willpower,which resonates in your soul and when you open yourself up to connecting to the limitless source of power which is the Reality that is G-D you will find the stamina that will get you the mastery that has always been within your reach

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#543

No matter how small you think you are G-d has given you potential and ability beyond belief-the only thing that truly limits you about you is what you choose to belief about you
A domino can knock over another domino about 1.5x larger than itself. A chain of dominos of increasing size makes a kind of mechanical chain reaction that st...

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#542

Misunderstandings are mis-sed understandings and the only way to redress them is through the willingness to understand and to strive to understand more in the future.Understanding does not mean agreement but the willingness to connect and realize that there are other different people in the world and makes a future possible.

Sunday, June 7, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#541

Always remember who you truly are and then noone will be able to drag you to where you should not be

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#540

You are the one who fills any void in your life consciously or subconsciously ,noone does that for you unless you let them.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#539

When responsibility overtakes blame you take your G-D given power back and stay in the game

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#538

Those who blame are the ones who stay the same ,those who take responsibility find proactive possibility

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#537

The more self "less" you are the more room you make in your life for others to be themselves

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#536

Hubris makes even the greatest achievements hollow, humility gives them eternity

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#535

Are you a Life Gratitude Expert?
Here is a questionnaire, be honest with yourself,and today might just be a transformational day for you

Grade yourself from 1-10 in the context of each question..dont let poor results get you down, see them as a welcome wake up call from G-D to improve to bring out a constantly  better version of you

1.How many times have you said thank you today?

2.How many times have you meant it?

3.How many times have thanked G-D today?

4.How many times have you stopped to consider the gift of each second of breath,sight,smell,hearing,taste,movement,being able to eat ,walk ,talk,read,have a roof over ones head.. ad infinitum and then added up the seconds in each day multiplying them by the number of G-Ds daily gifts,multiplying them by the years of your life thus far (trillions of gifts)?

5.How many times have you actually considered what you are thanking people for (or should be thanking them for)and what from their perspective it might have taken for them to  do it?

6.How many times have you stopped before reacting and considered the good people/the person you are interacting with  have done in general and for you?

7.How many times before  have you stopped before reacting and considered what the person/people you are interacting with mean to you?

8.How many times have you not said thank you because you thought"thats their job","they should be doing  that"," I deserve it"?

9.How many times have you not said thank you when you should have because you were angry,jealous,frustrated,annoyed etc with someone or in general?

10.How many times have you thanked  a loved one for doing things nicely,right,well,caringly ,with thought, effort consideration etc over the times you picked them out ,corrected them etc?..In other words how does your daily positive/negative balance sheet  look

11.Have you  highlighted, emphasized,recognized, appreciated even small progress,achievement or do you withhold your praise  etc until they get the  exact result etc you think they should have?..In others do you recognize effort as well or only results?

12. Are more of your thoughts and deed focused on expectation or  appreciation?

13.Do you build people up or tear them down( for their own good)?

14.When  a potentially dangerous situation is avoided do you say" lucky me" ,do you ignore it and move on etc or do you consider and appreciate that it could have turned out differently and feel full of gratitude?

15.When a day runs smoothly do you just carry on as usual or do you at some point stop and consider that things could have turned out very differently but       G-D's providence gifted you  with a good day and do you allow joyous gratitude to fill your being?

16.Do you think firstly what others should do for you or do you think about what you can do for others?

17.Are you complacent ,resigned to life or do your pour your best into each moment?

18.Do you just pull off leaves or flowers from bushes and trees while walking past  them or do you at any time stop and appreciate their beauty ,ingenuity,what life might be like without them etc?

19.Do you see each new day as  a gift, a new lease on life that G-D has given you or do you groan with the burden of another day?

20.How many times have you said WOW today?

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 you can always take it higher..you have G-D within you

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#534



Something was taken away from this young man but this inspirational hero is filling the void with light and not with darkness.....may we not lose sight of what we have no matter if G-D forbid we have lost something for our light is eternal and no loss can take away your light for you were forged from eternal might





Monday, June 1, 2015

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#533

NLP and other leading methods and outlooks are based on modeling,through learning, patterns,methods of success, achievement ,growth etc found in those who shine brightest
The Torah preceded NLP et al by at least 2000 years as it says in Ethics of our Fathers(Pirkei Avot)
"Who is wise,he who learns from everyone"
That is why even the greatest Torah scholar is called a Talmid Chacham ,a wise student
because this is the ultimate achiever mindset , with this mindset you are never complacent, you are always learning and therefore always growing becoming a constantly better version of you even with all the knocks because someone who is always learning ,thirsts for learning always gets back up---That is the stuff you are made of
"You can always take it higher you have G-D within you"

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#532

When you are down or when you are up remember
"You can always take it higher..you have G-D within you"
Live by these words and you will never stop growing, never stop adding to the greatest version of you that continues to bless this world on so many levels

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#531

Gratitude reveals the wow in the now

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#530

The story you tell yourself about what you can achieve is what you will achieve..Keep changing the story ...keep changing your life

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#529

If you are not counting your blessings you are discounting them

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#528

gratitude allows you to see through the blinders of an 'attitude'

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#527

When you are busy saying" thank you", you have less time to say" what about me ?"and you attract more blessing than any complaint would bring

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#526

Gratitude is the Gravity to your unique Greatness that will release the awesome godliness,the Divinity within ,your soul power, your part of the all encompassing unified Reality that is G-D where anything and everything is possible as the unlimited you, living your Masterpiece as a beautiful piece of the Master