Sunday, December 18, 2016

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

The picture below is a quote by my aunt ,the excerpt written by Mom shows you the quality of person that came up with such a quote
"The quote hereunder is my sister-in-law's, an incredible person who, because of her unconditional love, her 24/7 hands-on care and Colin's unbelievable will to live, Shona, together with Hashem, gave my brother an additional seven years of life (at home!) beyond the prognosis, after being diagnosed with Multiple Systems Atrophy in its worst possible form. During the last seven years of his life Colin became locked inside his body - on a cathetar, on a respirator, fed by a peg in his stomach, lungs suctioned day & night - unable to move, talk ... nothing... except blink his eyes with difficulty, but fully cognitive at the same time. All one saw in their home was joy, humour and a celebration of life! Shona gave him the best quality of life possible! "

Image may contain: 1 person, smiling, sunglasses and text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Dr John Demartini
Circumstances may be likened to stones. You can use them to build on or you can let them weigh you down.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: 1 person, sitting

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


ואתם הדבקים בה' אלוקיכם חיים כולכם היום
Dr John Demartini
t see as part of your purpose feels pointless and the ratio of pointlessness to purposefulness is how much 'hell or heaven' you have in your life. The truth is that everything you do is connected.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Image may contain: 1 person, text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Dr John Demartini
It may seem that a situation is a loss without gain, destruction without construction, but this is not the whole truth, for ignorance blindly sees only one side.
History has taught us that out of the ashes rise great opportunities and that any challenge can be transformed when we know how to ask a new set of questions and shift our perceptions and then actions.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Where focus goes energy flows a simple famous truth that can change your life instantly

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Are you an accident?
When it comes down to it there is a choice
If there is ( G-d forbid) no G-d then whatever justification you want to concoct you are an accident in the grand scheme of things and everything and everyone is random,simply results of a big bang ,no enduring meaning.
But if there is a G-d( There is) that is the entire Reality we live in then suddenly even the smallest thing has meaning even if you have no idea what it is.
A bigger picture is always in play ,everything you do means something and no matter how small or insignificant you think you are you matter and you mean something.
But that also means you are important enough to have a responsibility to live up to your totally unique authentic part in this bigger picture
And that is your life's journey,to discover your part in this bigger picture by starting to live it as much as you can day by day ,learn more growing, seeing , doing, keeping momentum, feeling alive.
This meaning has to find expression in your words, thoughts, actions reactions etc and every area of your life as your life is no longer random you have worth, infinite worth
So from being an insignificant random drop you are now part of the endless power of the ocean
You are a piece of the Master ..go live your Masterpiece

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Finding Your Authentic connection to G-d,to Torah, to yourself
We are told in Pirkei Avot that one of the 48 ways to acquire Torah is Nosei B'ol Im Chaveri,Carrying the burden with your friend
How does this aid us in acquiring the Torah?
What does it mean to "acquire" the Torah?
When you acquire something it becomes personal,it becomes yours ,part of your life and thus impacts your life authentically
When you feel someone's pain,carry their burden with them,share at some level their experience ,it does not get more personal than that
You enter their world and in so doing your world changes,your filters change and the Torah you learn is digested differently,filtered differently,experienced differently,felt differently.....and your life changes.
In this way you expand, connect authentically to more than you,understanding that there is more than you in the world and in so doing truly connecting to the essence of Torah..living a life that never stops filling up with love,giving,caring ...always exploring the wonders of who you are and can be knowing that there is no limit as to how high and how far you can go , bringing the world up with you..touching and igniting the goodness and greatness in yourself and others from HaMakom(The Place),another of G-d's names...The Place of Love and all encompassing Oneness that is G-d

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Don't be a prisoner to the metaphors you hear and use--change them
my favorite excuse metaphor people use is "I am stuck"
Noone is ever stuck unless they are glued to the spot ,as long as G-d gives you another day there are always choices,options,possibilities,the ability to rethink,reevaluate etc

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Are you a J.E.R.K. or K.I.N.D.?
J.udges people at every turn
E.xpects people to act and react etc as he/she sees fit
R.ehashes, does not know when to drop it ,let go ,move on
K.now it all..without given space for others to be and express themselves
------------------ --------------- ----------------------- --------------
K.nowing and respecting differences between two people, two worlds
I.nterested in listening without trying to fix ,advise or solve , just being there for the person
N.ormalizing, helping people choose to feel good about themselves and life and see the good in themselves and life
D.etermined to access a state of mind that will allow gratitude, giving and goodness to ripple down into all what you do and say etc

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

This Rav Kook quote in my opinion hits the mark with all the people bashing especially those who bash other Rabbis instead of working on themselves
“The truly righteous do not complain about evil, but rather add justice; they do not complain about heresy, but rather add faith; they do not complain about ignorance, but rather add wisdom.”
In other words instead of complaining about darkness add light and then you and others will see much clearer.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

"Knowledge has to be improved, challenged, and increased constantly, or it vanishes"
Peter Drucker

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Ten forbidden phrases of successful people
1. I cant
you cant only if you believe you cant
2.Not possible
Not possible only if you will not consider it
3.Its too difficult
Dont underestimate yourself
4.I dont have time.
We all find the time for whats important
5.when I am ready
noone is ever 100% ready
6.I will try
trying does nothing committing makes all the difference
7.what will others say?
Listen to others but go with what you know is right
8.Its too much
G-D gives you the strength to deal, face ,and over come whatever you need to
9.I dont have it in me
You never created you so its not your decision ,G-D created you with infinite potential..you dont have what you choose not to have
10.I have to be certain
If you dont take risks forward is a direction you will never know

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Choose Life
וּבָחַרְתָּ בַּחַיִּים לְמַעַן תִּחְיֶה אַתָּה וְזַרְעֶךָ:
You shall choose life, so that you and your offspring will live;- Devarim-30:19
J. Hershy Worch
The Kotzker rebbe said, "I could revive the dead, no problem. It's reviving the living which is hard."

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Unleash Your Guru Within
In Sanskrit gu-means darkness ru- means dispel.
In other words a true guru is a person that dispels darkness and whether we acknowledge it or not we all have a beautiful unique authentic light our part of G-d , our soul.
No darkness can withstand the power of your unique Divinely forged light but you have to believe it so you open yourself up to achieve it and be a portal of blessing shining your light as only you can making in your own way the world a better place .

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

The Power of our thoughts extends to literally being able to change ourselves physiologically starting with the brain which Neuroplasticity explains
What Is Neuroplasticity
The good news is your brain makes physical changes based on the repetitive things you do and experiences you have. The bad news is your brain makes physical changes based on the repetitive things you do and experiences you have. This morphing capability of your brain, known as neuroplasticity, works both for you and against you.
Neuroplasticity, the ability of the brain to change structure and function based on input from repeated behaviors, emotions, and thoughts is an empowering truth of the last decade with far reaching implications and possibilities for almost every aspect of human life and culture. However, this same characteristic, making your brain amazingly resilient, also makes it very vulnerable to outside and internal, usually unconscious, influences.
Just in case you’ve managed to miss all the hype, neuroplasticity is an umbrella term referring to the ability of your brain to reorganize itself, both physically and functionally, throughout your life due to your environment, behavior, thinking, and emotions. The concept of neuroplasticity is not new and mentions of a malleable brain go all of the way back to the 1800s, but with the relatively recent capability to visually “see” into the brain allowed by functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI), science has confirmed this incredible morphing ability of the brain beyond a doubt.
The concept of a changing brain has replaced the formerly held belief that the adult brain was pretty much a physiologically static organ or hard-wired after critical developmental periods in childhood. While it’s true that your brain is much more plastic during the early years and capacity declines with age, plasticity happens all throughout your life.
How many times have you heard someone say or even said yourself, “That’s just the way I am” or “I was born this way”? Those statements may be true, but do not mean that the person is fated to stay that way forever. Contrary to what used to be believed and was a rather convenient excuse, our brains are not hardwired at any age. You’re not stuck with the brain you were born with.
When a craving is satisfied, dopamine, a feel good neurotransmitter, is released in the brain. The same shot of dopamine that makes you happy is an essential component to neuroplasticity and making neuronal connections which reinforce your behavior.So we have to be extremely of context ,what thoughts and activities we do because negatives which we allow to give us a good feeling also releases dopamine
Our brains are changing all the time in response to our behaviors, emotions, and thoughts whether for our benefit or not. To work consciously to harness this process, called self-directed neuroplasticity, can transform brains, lives, and the world for the better.
(taken from a variety of articles on neuroplasticity)

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Have you ever wondered what G-d "thinks" of you?
Obviously we can never know really but we can get some indication from the Torah that G-d has given us
וַיַּרְא אֱלֹקים אֶת כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה וְהִנֵּה טוֹב מְאֹד וַיְהִי עֶרֶב וַיְהִי בֹקֶר יוֹם הַשִּׁשִּׁי-בראשית
And G-d saw all that " He" had done and behold it was very good, it was evening and it was morning, the sixth day- Bereishit
After G-d had just created man .. the purpose of Creation."He" said it was very good..what higher esteem can their be ?

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Many people have a long list of reasons to explain why they’re not doing what they love, but few of them objectively examine their reasons and look for underlying fears.
The reality is that there’s a hidden fear behind every imagined limitation.
As much as we may be tempted to blame other people or outside circumstances for our current condition in life, sooner or later we realize that we attract and create our own limitations.
Since we attract or create our own limitations, we can also break through them by learning to love them.
When you learn to love what you perceive to be a roadblock, you feel grateful for the lesson and the experience it represents.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Mastering Your Feelings-Maximizing Your Life
----Never Allowing Your Feelings to Control You----
"תחת אשר לא עבדת את ה' בשמחה ובטוב לבב מרוב כל"
..because you did not serve Hashem in gladness /joy /happiness and goodness of heart when everything was abundant- Devarim 28:48
In other words because the nation of Israel did not serve Hashem with joy when things were abundant they were deserving of punishment?
The question is how you can you mandate feelings, what if any control do we have over our feelings?
Well,,, according to the Boss we do , so that means we can and you can't argue with the Manufacturer
Thus once we learn to master this skill life , no matter where you find yourself , takes on a new invigorating perspective
As people who feel better do better become better.....
You might not have any control of what you are living through, going through etc right now but you do have access to control over how you choose to feel about it and this pave the way to eventually getting ,with G-d's grace through it and out of it.
Those who feel good . do a lot more good

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Raise Your B.A.R.( Believe. Achieve. Receive)
I saw something similar to this robotic type surgery on one of the star trek episodes more than 20 years ago when in actuality it was not even a dream but yet if someone even in a sci -fi series could imagine it it can be achieved and here is the proof
So if this can happen for physical achievements can you begin to imagine what we are capable of as people ,what heights we can reach spiritually....we are only limited by what we refuse to believe

Image may contain: one or more people

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

The Thought Train- You Sell The Tickets
A thought that you allow to stay with you eventually becomes a belief which then takes over your self talk and then becomes habit which enters your auto response system and you forget about it giving birth to a paradigm which directs your life.
Be Vigilant Your Life Matters

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Your Mental Stamina Diet For The Week
Sunday
Resolve noto take anything personally the entire day no matter what.
Monday
Resolve that if you fall ,no matter the reason ,to get back up no matter how hard.
Tuesday
Take anything negative that happens to you and reframe it positively no matter what.
Wednesday
Resolve not to wallow at all for any reason no matter what,instead go through at least ten things and/ or people that you are grateful for
Thursday
Resolve not to think of past mistakes ,failures and any mistakes you make today,anything you think you failed at
totally embrace as an opportunity to learn
Friday
Resolve to see no matter how small only your successes,achievements etc and celebrate them
Shabbat
Resolve to be self....less the entire day ,making space for others,their quirks etc no matter how annoying,let them be themselves enjoy the whole person, experience them realizing when you are self ...less you become so much more.
May Hashem bless you with the will to make this diet a lifestyle on the way to realizing the power packed mental power Hashem as filled you with.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Your Middah Diet For The Week
Sunday
No complaining at all at all for any reason the entire day
Monday
no excuses for anything at all for any reason the entire day
Tues
Dont criticize anyone at all for any reason the entire day
Wed
Dont insult ,name call,degrade etc anyone for any reason the entire day
Thursday
Don't put yourself down at all for any reason the entire day
Friday
Dont be negative at all for any reason the entire day
Shabbat
Dont ignore the needs of others at all
May Hashem bless you with the will to make this diet a lifestyle change for every single day

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

So many use the excuse "It is easier said than done."
Well of course because it is said not done...to have any chance at success we have to do.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Asking the right relevant, questions can often help people choose to discover so much about themselves and lead to amazing changes in their lives
Questions that Limit(closed questions)
Closed questions limit creativity. When we ask a question that includes an answer, the listener must respond to that answer, often with a “yes” or “no.” This type of question doesn’t cause a lot of reflection because the options for response are extremely limited in other words a closed question.
One reason we ask limiting questions is because we are stuck in our own perspective. We have ideas and when we form questions, those questions come out with our answers embedded in them.
Questions that Generate Possibilities(Open ended questions)
Ask questions that promote creativity and generate possibilities by asking more broadly about the topic. Begin your questions with the words: What, How, or Who.
These questions have unlimited possible answers. The listener is not merely saying “yes” or “no” to your idea. Questions with these words tend to produce more reflection and fuller answers . Most important, they stimulate the creativity and generate possibilities for the listener.
There is risk in doing this. The response to an open ended question can go in many different directions. Asking open ended questions require a coach to give up control of the response. But creativity and new possibilities only emerge when we move beyond what we know and think has to be and explore what could be.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

People are different and allowed to be even if you disagree so a critical skill to preserve relationships is to learn to
Express sensitively what you feel
Take nothing personally
Learn to let go of the issue, you dont have to force people to agree with you,that rarely gets people to do what they need to
Move on-an issue is never more important than a person(there are extreme exceptions)

Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

L.O.V.E.
Know what to 
L.et go
O.verlook
V.alue
E.mbrace
Come from a place of love and then you will learn to L.O.V.E.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Every time you meet a person you are meeting a snapshot not the whole journey so with understanding avoiding judgement and assumptions be a lighthouse that helps them avoid the rocks and which may give you a bigger picture

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Bob is telling us what we are already knew since time immemorial and constantly teach/learn that the Guf(body) is the Levush(the ,covering,clothes) of the Neshama(soul) and so our potential is limitless- Ein Od Milvado

Image may contain: text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

What is the miracle in all the darkness?
Those who insist on lighting a candle

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Please dont be normal......leave a clear path to your unique authenticity

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

You never lose time when you use time ......positively,effectively, wisely etc

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Your Daily Mussar Diet:
When anger comes dont waste energy fighting it let it come but dont it engage carry on walking on the other side of the street focusing what you are grateful, what and /or whom you love.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When you hold a grudge in that area it is your life that does not budge

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Your Daily Mussar Diet:
Today ,no matter what, forego excuses and see what the day brings and what you can do.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: text and one or more people

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When you learn to love people your love for G-d truly grows for you are connecting to the godly within them reflecting the godly within you.
Then even when very difficult choices have to be made about people, how to react etc in challenging situations are still carried out but never pull us into the darkness that others may be in.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Just C.H.I.L.L.
C.alm down
H.old on to Hope and Happiness
I.nteract with the beauty that surrounds you
L.et go of the ego based nonsense
L.ove yourself ..we all make mistakes and have inner wars

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

See unconditionally the good,the great,the wonderful,the potential in actuality and possibility in people and relate to them as if that is all you see.
You are not necessarily agreeing with them but you are also not dismissing them you are giving hope showing that mistakes need not be an ending but rather herald a powerful new beginning

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When you allow yourself to be conditioned by tradition( in business, work ,socially, privately etc) without thinking you land up living in omission and miss out on finding and feeling your life's mission

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Choose Life - Act F.O.R. life
Three keys to a fulfilling,unlimiting life
Fluid
keep things moving don't let the siren's song of your comfort zone pull you back into regression..always look with gratitude to take it higher, better, further.
Open
Never lock yourself into what has to be, stay open always to what can be.Seeing challenges etc as on the way and not in the way
Reevaluate
When you reevaluate with brutal honesty you will always give yourself the opportunity to choose to know where you are, what you need to change,add ,where you need to invest more etc

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Facing Your negative and destructive urges
Many suggest a myriad of options and strategies,one of them being engage the urge and rebut it
If that does not work for you I would like to suggest that when an urge attacks and we fight it many a time we give in or we cause ourselves anguish , frustration etc so therefore let it come, don't fight it but at the same
DO NOT:
ENGAGE IT,ENTERTAIN IT,EMBRACE IT OR ENERGIZE IT
as i it only has the strength we give it, let it play out like a movie reel every single time it attacks no matter how harsh
While it is attacking and you are not fighting it but also not engaging it just keep focusing on a powerful affirmation, verse or statement that you connect to and eventually it will pass
Three of my Affirmations are:
I give Malchut(authority, kingship) to " You" Hashem and not the urge
I am a soulboss my soul is has dominion over my body
I will(b.n.) not barter my or my family's Eternity for any fleeting gratification and/or distraction
You may fall but always get back up knowing your life means something and that you never fall too far that you are beyond G-d's reach and that you are always worth the fight
G-d loves you and is aware of your inner wars but in these wars surrender is never an option
G-d gifted you with life and so much more, the way you choose to live your life can be your gift to G-d
Keep going, stay vigilant, stand strong and then one day you will find when G-d deems it opportune that the urge has been transformed into a Divine surge and you are stronger and wiser for it

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

hange is an integral necessity of life,of growth,of success
Here are 10 habits of Change friendly People
1.Be clear on why the change is necessary
.When you know why it is necessary you can find the necessary motivation
2. Make it a Priority 
.If you make it a priority in your life it has more of a chance of taking root and having the desired impact on your life
3.Willingness to Jump out of your Boxes
Change cannot be if you allow your comfort zones to imprison you.Once you learn to exit your comfort zones,jump out of your boxes you will meet ,life,change on a new level
4. Be clear on the duration
Understanding whether or not the change is permanent,limited or even if the duration is unknown will help you put it more into perspective
5.Learn to ask for help,advice,guidance
.At times we are stuck and asking for guidance from the right people does not mean we have to agree, it just means that we increase our chances of getting unstuck and moving forward
6.Sharing the change with those that matter
Depending on the change needed it can impact many of the people in our lives and even if some disagree with you when you share your reasons you give yourself a real chance at preserving those relationships that might be at risk and enhancing those that are supportive
7.Consistent Reevaluation
Consistent honest reevaluation measures our success,helps us consider other options when needed,helps us correct mistakes etc and basically keep us on the path we need to effect the change or if necessary to change direction
8. Ambitious Patience
Anything worthwhile takes time especially change and this is compounded if we have been used to doing something for many years and now need to change.Patience gives us a chance,allows us not to be negatively hasty and facilitates lasting success.The ambition keeps us resilient ,energized, focused and avoids complacency
9 . Make your self talk change friendly
We all talk to ourselves ,whether verbally or non verbally via words thoughts etc.When our self talk becomes change friendly we are in essence programming ourselves for success
10.G-d is with you
G-d never puts you in a situation wherein you cannot find the strength and ability to face and deal with something.So bypass the chatter of your mind connect to your soul and know that G-d is with you every step of the way believes in you,loves you and with G-D you have your best chance at success no matter the odds

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/health-fitness/mental-health/the-two-big-beliefs-linked-to-depression

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Some critical coaching keys to helping a person get in touch with and release their authenticity are
Acknowledge them ,what they say feel etc
Listen with a desire to understand and not to give answers
Empty the conversation of anything you,make it all about them
Dont give advice ,solutions etc let the person dig deep as G-d has given us all we need to become all we can(use open ended questions)
Praise honestly every bit of progress,effort etc no matter how small
.
Perhaps the most important of all,which also affects all the above points,do not judge ,release your need to judge as it is not about you

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

"ANY idea that is held in the mind, that is emphasized, that is either feared or revered, will begin at once to cloth itself in the most convenient and appropriate form available." 
-Andrew Carnegie

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When you "kill" time you are killing who you could be .
Time is a golden bucket waiting to be filled by the best you can muster at any given time.
Never be off duty , you and your life are too precious, no matter your age or circumstance.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Masterchef Mussar
I was watching an episode of Masterchef Australia where a contestant said that they were so happy that they could take a dish that was already good to the next level and improve it.
That got me thinking, even if we are happy and fulfilled we can always to take it higher , do better , give more, increase quality,bring more goodness into the world and indeed our greatest gift to G-d could very well be never ever settling but no matter our life always taking it higher, shattering limits,breaching the impossible , shining a brighter light
Yesterday's Greatness Is Today's Ordinary As A New Is A New Life To Be Lived
Stagnation is a Myth but Momentum Leads to Legendary

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When you are engaging in discourse you are always getting the other's perspective ,there are always other perspectives.
So always stay open to a bigger,maybe different picture and know that there is also more than you perspective.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Are you your harshest critic?
If so ...how about becoming your greatest fan pushing yourself to be all that G-d knows you can be so that you can find some joy in what you achieve because you allowed yourself to believe.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

https://dev.tonyrobbins.com/the-6-human-needs-why-we-do-what-we-do/

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: 1 person , text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Listening-the make or break skill 
L.earn to enter someone elses world,suspend judgement,put ego on hold
I.ntend to understand not to solve.Reflect emotions and facts as expressed by the speaker.
S.ilent...let people express themselves
T.ake your world out in order to hear the other clearly. without judgement
E.ngage yourself fully,be fully present
N.ever ignore the impact of what is being said on you so that you can maintain focus

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: 1 person , night and text

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When I wake up, gifted by Hashem with a new day after Modeh Ani my B.I.O. for the day is Bring It On

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

When you learn and accept that G-d has the stopwatch and not you , you may just be blessed to, with patience ,watch the most miraculous and providential of things unfold

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Image may contain: text, outdoor and nature

Sunday, November 13, 2016

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Mussar From Coaching
I must have learnt around 1000 different powerful coaching questions covering so many different situations
Yet sometimes I am in a coaching a session and I draw a blank..at a total..loss.
It is as if Hashem is telling me....yes,put your best effort always...but know that it is always Me..never you..I am always with you ..so anything and everything is possible and then the question comes

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

HERE IS ONE THING TO ALWAYS REMAIN ANGRY WITH:
Your Yetser Hara
Your anger will keep you on guard

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Redemption Coaching
A Life Changing Equation
(Thoughts+Actions=Feelings+Physiology)<=Ripple Effect
When you change either how you think and/or your actions your feelings will change and in many case also how your body feels.
When you stay in a certain negative,challenging pattern of thoughts and or actions long enough it will eventually ripple into your body and other areas of your life
When you understand and work at applying this equation you will change your life- for example
Stress is nothing more than a choice, conscious or subconscious to think about a certain person, experience etc in a specific way.
Find a more effective way of thinking and you will event

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

You are never too far gone to go far
Redemption according to one definition is the act of making something better or more acceptable and only G-D can maintain perfection so if we want to make the best of life, the best of our relationships,to offer the world the best version of ourselves we should always be looking for redemption.
The interesting thing about the wholehearted pursuit of redemption in every area of our lives is when we let that positive passion into our hearts it resonates outwards ,becomes contagious impacting others , changing our lives ,changing the world and elevating you to world class...no.. to miracle class and you find yourself not as a casualty of your circumstances but rather as a champion of your circumstances pouring your unique G-D given greatness into this world-

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Finding Your Mental Mojo:
Do not ever choose a permanent solution for a temporary problem-Les Brown

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Finding Your Mental Mojo:
Ein Od Milvado( There is nothing but G-d) is probably the greatest secret to harnessing your mental mojo because when you truly live it , when it lives in your heart and ripples to and through every area of your life then NOTHING can stop the true , free authentic you from shining through as the the true you is the eternal you , your totally unique part of G-d , your soul, your part of the Master making you a Masterpiece
FIGHT FOR YOU BELIEVE IN YOU ..G-D DOES!!!!!!

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Finding Your Mental Mojo:
Your mental Mojo resonates when you connect to what is authentically you

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Finding Your Mental Mojo:
When your locus of control is what people think of you then your mental muscles do not exercise but wait for others to do the circuit .

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

http://www.proctorgallagherinstitute.com/11126/how-to-override-paradigms-and-achieve-your-goals

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Dr John Demartini
s. If you don’t clearly define, plan and pursue your highest aspirations in your career you will keep being positioned in low priority positions that are unfulfilling.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

There is no such thing as I can't there is only what you are not willing to consider,to be open to,to do

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Many say fight your negative urges, fight your bad thoughts
Let me suggest
that the energy expended in doing that can be draining.
Your peace of mind becomes elusive
You succumb to fear,anxiety , frustration etc when you contemplate and dwell on these terrible thoughts etc
Do maybe something different
Let the urges and bad thoughts come, freely,let them flow
BUT
Now here is where you put some effort in which will eventually become easier
DO NOT IN ANY WAY ENGAGE YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS AND URGES
thoughts and urges are illusions empowered by the credibility YOU give them.
When you disempower them you empower yourself
They will attack relentlessly but stand strong , DO NOT ENGAGE THEM let them play out like a bad movie while you focus on something positive, a happy memory,a great feeling or experience.
Practice this until it is part of you and find joy in the clarity that follows and the peace of mind that ensues

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Remember – what you visualize – you ACTUALIZE.- Bob Proctor
I would add BeChasdei Hashem

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training


Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

We should always remember that what we perceive as a no from G-d is not a rejection but rather a redirection to inspire reflection-inspired by Cheryl Mavrikos

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Noticing Hashem's hugs
Interestingly Hashem let me see today personally that if you stay open to it you will see and feel Hashem's hugs and loving care even during challenges
Yes it can be tremendously hard depending on your attitude and the challenge you find yourself in
SO
Practice never closing in on yourself,staying open, allowing yourself to see and feel the light that is Hashem's love then darkness might at times hurt you but will never prevail.

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Rejection is nothing more than an extended stay in the realm of better possibilities

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Stress can shut down your power if you let it. Do not allow people, bills, or pressures on the job to consume your focus, energy and joy for life. Uncontrolled stress can cause you to gain weight; change your personality and create problems in your relationships; turn your hair gray overnight; make you sick, and make it difficult for you to get out of bed.
Take time to become aware of the major stressors in your life and the ways you are dealing with them. Recognize the price you are paying for not taking deliberate action with regard to your spiritual, social, emotional and physical well-being. In the face of what may appear to be crippling circumstances, choose to live every part of your life. Decide to be happy, actively engaged and live from the inside out. Create centered and grounding moments in your own life as part of your spiritual life.
Use what works – exercise, meditation, meaningful connections with others. Volunteer your time to make a difference in the lives of others. You are more powerful than you are currently living. Harness your power to live above the stress in your life.-Les Brown

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Turn to Hashem
Talk to Hashem
Trust Hashem
Thank Hashem
Living your B.E.S.T. life (Bitachon.Emuna.Simcha.Toda)

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

 I changed one word to Barry White's famous song "You're The First, The Last, My Everything"and it expresses beauitfully our love for Hashem
My first, my last, my everything
And the answer to all my dreams
You're my sun, my moon, my guiding star
My kind of wonderful, that's what you are
I know there's only, only one like you
There's no way they could have made two
You're all I'm living for, your love I'll keep forevermore
First, you're the last, my everything
In you I've found so many things
A love so new, only you could bring
Can't you see it's you? You make me feel this way
You're like a first morning dew on a brand new day
I see so many ways that I can love you 'til the day I die
You're my reality, yet I'm lost in a dream
You're the first, the last, my everything
I know there's only, only one like you
There's no way they could have made two
G-d, you're my reality, but I'm lost in a dream
You're the first, you're the last, my everything