Thursday, December 14, 2017

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Become your own mental I.T. guy 
Step 1. see if you are connected to you
Step.2 Take responsibility for the "I" nterpretation of what goes on around you
Step 3.Don't engage any bad , negative, debilitating etc "T"houghts let them play out like a bad movies

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Paradox is the beginning of understanding,knowing that much that is beyond my current sight is now open to me with G-d's gift of Eternal Light of endless possibility

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hose who curse and swear with the mouth that they bless and pray taint the purity of any words they want sent heaven's way

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When you learn to truly love yourself you will find reservoirs of love for others

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The Life You Live Is The Life You Describe To Yourself
S.elf T.alk A.wareness R.ejuvenation

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The B.E.S.T. way to find inner peace and harmony
B.itachon E.muna S.imcha T.oda

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An Unhealthy Mind Can Lead To An Unhealthy Body
Get some P.O.T.(PurityOf Thought)

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

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The Gratitude Mentor

If  you have a body but are an Eternal unlimited soul then the only limits you have are the ones you perceive,

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So many people are DCC(distraction,complacent,comfort zone) addicted &then they wonder why meaning,fulfillment & purpose escapes them.-Wake up to the life that can be

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The thoughts that plague you represent that which you choose to( consciously and/or unconsciously) hold on to.

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“Anxiety’s like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but it doesn’t get you very far.” ~Jodi Picoult
“Life is ten percent what you experience and ninety percent how you respond to it.” ~Dorothy M. Neddermeyer
“People become attached to their burdens sometimes more than the burdens are attached to them.” ~George Bernard Shaw
“Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrows, but only empties today of its strength.” ~Charles Spurgeon
“The other thing is that if you rely solely on medication to manage depression or anxiety, for example, you have done nothing to train the mind, so that when you come off the medication, you are just as vulnerable to a relapse as though you had never taken the medication.” ~Daniel Goleman

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When a certain outcome(positive or negative) ensues our natural reaction is to expect it.
Stay aware of your reactions

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G.R.I.T.
G.RATITUDE
R.ESILIENCE
I.NVESTED
T.ENACITY

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If Your World Is A Flowing River Then You Are Never Stuck As You Are Seeing More and Doing More But Most Importantly Moving.

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F.orgive easily
U.nderstand quickly
L.isten being totally present
L.et things go

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The drop becomes the ocean and the ocean becomes the drop
ONENESS

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Soul Control leads to Soul Stamina taking you far beyond previously perceived limitations

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Nothing Keeps me down because Hashem Pushes me up
Two choices on life's battlefield
Life will either make you or break you
It is always and only your choice.

Thursday, November 16, 2017

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You have it in you to find some happiness no matter what goes on around you as inside is where YOU choose how to filter the outside

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The miracles you choose to get used to you start to call regular & that which is regular you call routine,what you call routine you then call boring or overwhelming.-Dont get used to the miracles

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When you work daily on self mastery you empower the part of the Master that is in your self

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The truth is that there is no actual stress or anxiety in the world; it's your thoughts that create these false beliefs. You can't package stress, touch it, or see it. There are only people engaged in stressful thinking.--Wayne Dyer

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Dr John Demartini
The Law of Momentum dictates that an object pushed in one direction continues in that direction with increasing speed and force.
The same is true of thought; the more persistent a thought over time, the stronger its influence from minute-to-minute, day-to-day and year-to-year.
Our innermost dominant thought becomes our outermost tangible reality.
Each thought may be likened to a stone, use it either to build upon or weigh you down.

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The 9 core behaviors of people who positively impact the world are:
They dedicate themselves to what gives their life meaning and purpose.
They commit to continually bettering themselves.
They engage with people in open, mutually-beneficial ways.
They invest time and energy not in what is, but what can be.
They embrace critique.
They spread what they know.
They uplift others as they ascend.
They view the journey as the goal.
They use their power and influence well.-Kathy Caprino

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You have a body but you are a soul

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Anything or anyone is the positive potential you choose to see in it and or them

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Continually make the best choice you can at any moment and then even if you "lose" you learn which always leads to a win.
Angry people will do and say Angry things
Greedy people will do and say Greedy things
Selfish people will do and say Selfish things
Critical people will do and say Critical things
Self Pitying people will do and say Self Pitying things
Happy people will do and say Happy things
Caring people will do and say Caring things
Selfless people will do and say Selfless things
Confident people will do and say Confident things
Resilient people will do and say Resilient things
the list goes on and on...
This is all a function of your chosen state of mind..yes you did choose it consciously and/or subconsciously ,aware , unaware etc.
Be brutally honest with where you are and know that if you choose to stay in a certain state of mind you are determining the types of actions you will take and/or not take ,the words you will say and/or not ,the thoughts you will think and /or not think,the beliefs you will have limiting or not etc etc.
Take the time to invest in you and a state of mind that will empower the constantly higher you, a good way to start is to retrain and rewire your for a gratitude powered state of mind.
Remember a confident person that you see is not always confident , they go down and up like everyone but they do not stay down in whatever dump they were in.

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Thursday, November 9, 2017

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Whatever YOU choose to allow in your heart has the potential to tear you apart ,bring more clarity as to the lessons G-d wishes to impart or even boost a stronger positive kick start.

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Many times what you are fighting and engaging you need to let it come, let it go and disengage and then it loses its power from the energy you give it and is revealed eventually as the homegrown illusion it always was.

Sunday, November 5, 2017

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How you see each day will add to how you go your way
How you go your way will determine what you do each day.

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http://www.schoolofcoachingmastery.com/coaching-blog/bid/110298/Positive-Psychology-Coaching-10-Amazing-Discoveries-About-Gratitude

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P.ay Attention
A.ppreciate
U.nderstand
S.ee the beauty
E.mbrace

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If G-d(whatever that truly means) is the ONLY constant then nothing HAS to be and there is ALWAYS hope for what can be,whether we see it,understand it etc or not.

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Wherever you choose to live at any moment will determine your view of what goes on around you.
No one can give you what you choose to deny yourself

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When you make a decision you do what is necessary to back up that decision.

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When you look for alibis for your excuses you will find them

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What do you see/look for first in any situation?
Your honest answer will reveal much about you

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Comfort Zone= Cemetery
Only the dead no longer grow so maybe staying in our comfort is a cemetery for we bury ourselves in comfort and complacency instead of striving for a wider vision of life and higher version of ourselves no matter our age or circumstance
“When was the last time you did something for the first time.” Anonymous
“If you want something you’ve never had, then you’ve got to do something you’ve never done.” Anonymous
“Your life does not get better by chance. It gets better by change.” Jim Rohn
“The shell must break before the bird can fly.” Alfred Tennyson
You have to let go of the life you’re familiar with to live the life you dream about
“Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears.” Les Brown
“I’m not telling you it’s going to be easy, I’m telling you it’s going to be worth it.” Anonymous

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To W.I.N. in any situation you have to be
W.illing to
Believe
Make the effort
Learn
Understand
Care
Be open to what can be
Change etc
I.nspire and being inspired fuels us to go foward
N.ever give up

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We are the person we believe our selves to be
We can't outgrow the limits we impose on ourselves- Earl Nightingale
Soul based thinking opens you up to constantly believing that you can always go higher and higher

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A soul based thinker journeys from rote habitual behavior to potential and possibility filled behavior

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Great Insight By Tony Robbins
"...You cannot be grateful and fearful at the same time
You cannot be angry and grateful at the same time...."
So..I would suggest work on gratitude it will transform your life in so many areas

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A soul based thinker sublimates complaints into prayers and excuses into action.

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Be honest about your inner conflicts for their resolution leads to your inner harmony

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Where most people give up choose to learn and then you will do what most do not

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Nothing is invented only revealed

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Most of us do not live the lives we could because we do not see how we can get there.
Soul Based Thinking takes you past what you think you see and opens you up to the possibility of all you can be and so you progress even if currently you do not see how you can get there because you already know you can .

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You choose: 
Are you the caterpillar or the butterfly?
Do you see new beginnings or only that which ends?

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Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.
— John Wooden
Do just once what others say you can't do, and you will never pay attention to their limitations again. ~ James R. Cook
A pearl is a beautiful thing that is produced by an injured life. It is the tear [that results] from the injury of the oyster. The treasure of our being in this world is also produced by an injured life. If we had not been wounded, if we had not been injured, then we will not produce the pearl. ~ Stephan Hoeller
Victory is always possible for the person who refuses to stop fighting. ~ Napoleon Hill
Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.
— F. Scott Fitzgerald
What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail? ~ Robert Schuller
The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can change his life by changing his attitude of mind. ~ William James
Minds are like parachutes, they function only when open. ~ Unknown Author
Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. ~ Will Rogers
"Once you choose hope, anything is possible." — Christopher Reeve
"A positive attitude gives you power over your circumstances instead of your circumstances having power over you." — Joyce Meyer
"Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it." — Fyodor Dostoevsky
"If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person." — Fred Rogers

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One great attribute of a soul based thinker is the desire to see people no matter how many times they fall as standing tall.

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Soul based thinking never limits the body rather it takes the body way beyond body based thinking imposed limitations

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One issue with immediate gratification is extreme tunnel vision,the smallest picture.
Soul based thinking leads to a bigger picture, healthier perspective and meaningful gratification.

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Body based thinking focuses on immediate gratification soul based thinking focuses on meaningful gratification

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When Emuna is in your heart challenges change from walls to springboards

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The people that are most open to enduring change and living their greatest life are those who choose to be
Humble:-The humble never think they know it all or are better than anyone else they are thus open through learning to all that can be instead of incarcerated by what pride tells you has to be .
Authentic:-Those who choose to live their best lives without trying to compare themselves or make what they do conditional upon the words ,actions etc of others are always open to discovering more about themselves, their lives no matter what or how it comes their way.
Givers: Those who live to give, to help, to live a life of service as opposed to a life of self involvement feel how giving allows you to expand and receive more fully what G-d's gift of life has to offer with a sense of magnificent fulfillment .
All three types understand that stagnation is a myth and change is constant so rather get ahead of it and utilize it to go forward than be dragged in its wake.

Wednesday, November 1, 2017

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Fight for the light no matter how dark for that journey affords you better sight & an appreciation of the might behind the light.

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Many live life on automatic.
Always be curious,question, aware ,engaged on duty for your fullest life.

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When people tell you what you cannot do
They are projecting what they cannot do or are fearful of

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See life as fluid,expect it then change will not shock you and being stuck will not last

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Context
Perspective
Chosen norm
Can change everything

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You see what you focus on.

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A pity to put up walls for if you delay in tearing them down there maybe no one or nothing left on the other side .

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How is it that many of us do not forgive others for that which in a similar situation we would beg forgiveness for?

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If you have to passionately hate, hate your Yetser HaRa as listening to it robs you of your greatest most fulfilling life.

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I Trust
I Believe 
I Hope 
I Dream 
I Thank
I Can
I Will
I Am

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The key to many mysteries is in the mundane that we dismiss which hides much magnificence that we sadly miss

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Emuna Bitachon and Hakarat HaTov are the strength of your roots that keep the tree that is you from blowing over amidst the storms that may G-d forbid come our way.

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https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/turning-point/201504/how-build-rapport-powerful-technique

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Look for G-d in everyone and everything and you will behold a different world

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The reaction of " that's impossible.." is generally a defensive mechanism against fear

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Be what you have the inclination to preach to others

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If you are open to the body being the soul's clay then the limits that were becomes the life that can be
no matter where you are or how you are

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Avoid A Life Of Probability And Live A Life Of Possibility

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When a person is convinced something is going to happen many times they will find a way to make it happen as they entertain nothing else

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It is quite magical,when you do away with meaningless distraction you suddenly find time for meaningful action

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https://www.thebestbrainpossible.com/how-your-thoughts-change-your-brain-cells-and-genes/

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https://www.huffingtonpost.com/debbie-hampton/how-your-thoughts-change-your-brain-cells-and-genes_b_9516176.html?ncid=engmodushpmg00000003

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Emotional Intelligence is expressed by the way you choose to manage your state of mind in absolutely any situation.

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There is only one way to be unstoppable
DON'T STOP

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Emotional Intelligence starts when you choose how you feel and you do not let other people or situations dictate how you feel

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Speak gently, those who cannot hear an angry shout may make the effort to hear a whisper

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Being a part of the all encompassing Oneness and more that is G-d does not mean you lose your individuality as you are a totally unique part of the symphony of life whose concerto is always heard.

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Dr John Demartini
Achieving goals boils down to a person’s individual values.
Every person lives by a set of priorities or values, things that are most important in their life to least important.
All perceptions, decisions and actions are based on these values.
So the reason people don’t succeed in achieving their goals is simply because the goals they set do not align with their highest values.

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Tony Robbins
Ask yourself, "What would I want for my life if I knew I could have it any way I want it? What would I go for if I knew I could not fail?"

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People at their core want to feel R.E.A.L
R.espected
E.mpathized with
A.ppreciated
L.oved

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Many say change begets change.I would suggest that happens effectively when you choose to be the change you wish to get

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PAIN can happen as many of us know SUFFERING is how we choose consciously or subconsciously to relate to the PAIN

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Someone approached another and said.."..I have heard said that you are a great disappointment.."
The other replied.."that is right I am great..."
Don't live in denial but more importantly no matter where you are ,who you are or how far you fall remember noone can touch ,change or impact your eternal goodness,worth and value because it was given to you by G-d.
What you need to do is embrace it,accept it and believe it for noone can be a better you than you.

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Most people want to feel useful-
I would like to suggest that no matter your age or circumstance when you put the fullness in of whatever G-d has allowed you to have use of, you will always be useful,always...

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Get out of your head and step into your greatness-Les Brown

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So many of us claim we believe in G-d yet our belief in what we cannot do seems to be our ruling false god

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I love the way these Icons of motivational speaking and self empowerment the world over say do x or y etc to get the LIFE YOU DESERVE
Little old me could not disagree more..
Who decides what you deserve?
Do you even know what you deserve ?
Is the picture of your life past present and future so wide that you truly know what you deserve?
If so then maybe G-d has an opponent for the next election(G-d forbid)
Why do so many of us think in terms of what we deserve?That is so limiting as it is dependent on our limited perceptions, understanding, beliefs , etc at our present point of confluence.
It is precisely because of our current limiting beliefs, perceptions understanding etc that we are missing what could be or letting our lives live us instead of living our lives.
It might just be more effective to stay open to what can be instead of entrapped by the arrogance of what has to be and then we find a life far beyond what we think we deserve and we find a life that our true eternal values and needs does serve.

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Revel in differences then they will make a meaningful difference and your relationship will flourish

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Believe well past that which you now perceive and open yourself up to that which you might have thought you could never achieve

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“When the will is ready the feet are light.” – Proverb
Nothing is easy to the unwilling.
Thomas Fuller
Better to do something imperfectly than to do nothing flawlessly.
Robert Schuller
Willingness is essential in any initiation or in making an dream come true. "I can't" often means "I won't." You can change "I won't" to "I will" with willpower.
We must be willing to get rid of the life we’ve planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.
Joseph Campbell
Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into.
Wayne Dyer
“The man who goes farthest is generally the one who is willing to do and dare. The sure-thing boat never gets far from shore.” – Dale Carnegie
“Tomorrow is the only day in the year that appeals to a lazy man.” – Jimmy Lyon
“Problems are only opportunities in work clothes.” – Henry J. Kaiser
“What you have to do and the way you have to do it is incredibly simple. Whether you are willing to do it, that’s another matter.” – Peter F. Drucker
“Willpower is the art of replacing one habit for another.” – Michael Garofalo

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Your unique Life is a banquet , why are you starving yourself?

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When you WILL you find the POWER

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How you see each day will add to how you go your way
How you go your way will determine what you do each day.

Tuesday, October 17, 2017

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Another secret to finding true happiness:
Happiness is never what you are doing and or who you are with but rather how you have chosen consciously and/or subconsciously to think about and relate to that person,object activity etc
But you might say I automatically feel good when I______
Well obviously because you have been thinking about and relating to_____ in a certain way for so long that it has become part of your automatic response system ...until you actively decide to put in the effort and make the requisite changes .

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No matter how hard things are now if you keep making excuses instead of taking effective action nothing will change and they will get worse.
Get Help...Get Hopeful..Get Going

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Whatever sits in our mind is what our eyes tend to find 
Emotional Intelligence keeps our mind out of any unnecessary bind

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Emotional Intelligence leads to Harmony for when you feel right you do right and then inside and out are congruent

Sunday, September 3, 2017

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H.armony
E.quanimity
A.lignment
R.esonance
T.rust

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Get Your Bright Light Out Of The Cave Of Your Self Doubt And Shine

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The picture you have of yourself, your self-esteem, will have a profound effect on the way you see the world and the way your world sees you.”
— Earl Nightingale

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“Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself, and know that everything in life has purpose. There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from.”
– Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
“True happiness… is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.”
– Helen Keller
“If you have a strong purpose in life, you don’t have to be pushed. Your passion will drive you there.” ― Roy T. Bennett
“Chase your passion, not your pension.” – Denis Waitley
“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs; ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” -Howard Thurman
“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.” ~E.M. Forster

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When you are
V.IGILANT-always on duty 
A.WARE-paying attention
L.EARNING-always learning and willing to learn
U.NDERSTANDING-always trying to understand
ENGAGED-engaging all of you in the gift of your life
Then you truly V.A.L.U.E.your life

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When you change your State of Mind
You will be able to change your Story
When you change your story you change your Self Image 
When you change your self image you change your Strategy 
When you change your Strategy you change your Life

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"If you wake up thinking about it, go through the day dreaming about it then don't stop working for it"

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Do you want to S.O.A.R.R. unlimited?
Then consider that Hashem is your only real
S.olution
O.ption
A.nswer
R.eality
R.ecourse

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Nothing has to be ,ever... only Hashem has to be so the only limits you have are those you choose to perceive.

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Don't Be A J.E.R.K.
Don't
J.udge everyone negatively, seek to understand
E.xpect people to be you.let them be them
R.ationalize harsh , needless criticism and self righteousness
K.now it all- People want to feel heard and valued and you can learn from others too.

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Stand up to your mistakes
No matter how low you feel for that will build you up

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Assume nothing
Pray for everything

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You will never find the perfect person but with G-d"s grace you will find the one that is perfect for you.

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Forgive easily so you can live meaningfully.

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We become what we think about- Earl Nightingale

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Those who feel they are insignificant have never been significantly open to discovering how truly significant they are

Monday, August 21, 2017

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Blessed Are The Receivers
Most people talk about givers ,takers and somewhere in between but consider
How open we are to fully receive the life we have right now in all it's aspects we determine how we give and what if anything we choose to take.
For better or worse we have been given the lives we have now.How we choose to receive it will create the life we will continue to live and determine whether we live our lives or our lives live us.

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I can testify that when you feel you are hanging on a ledge and it would be just so easy to close your eyes and let go gratitude keeps you holding on as gratitude is the sister of hope and boosts your Emunah and Bitachon helping you surrender to the greatest Will , the Ultimate plan whether you see it or not and you get back up and go with what you have got right now.

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Powerful insights about resisting change
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves – Victor Frankl
People don’t resist change. They resist being changed – Peter Senge
The greatest danger in times of turbulence is not the turbulence; it is to act with yesterday’s logic – Peter Drucker
Remember that on any world the wind eventually wears away the stone, because the stone can only crumble; the wind can change – A.C. Crispin
You had better be ready to change your mind when needed, or your mind will change you – Henry B. Wilsonx

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Why do many of feel D.O.W.N. for extended periods?
In many cases it is because we
D.well
O.bsess
W.allow
N.egatively focus in a less than healthy manner on what is going on, what has happened specifically and in general and dont let up
Feeling down happens to the best of us..staying down brings out,eventually, the worst in us.

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Do want to find your fuel , find more life ,more you feel more alive?
If so then be totally brutally honest with yourself in answering the following questions
What do you really , really want?
How much do you really really want it?( scale of 1-10)
Is what you want in tune with your highest values, your why, what is truly important to you?
In 30 years how much would you absolutely regret not doing it?
What are you doing now to achieve it?
Is it working ?
What else, what changes can you make right now to help you achieve what you want?
Are you willing to cut your excuses by at least half and increase your actions as much as needed if not more?
How would you feel and how would your life change if you achieved what you really really want?

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

“Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it. ”
– M. Scott Peck
“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.”
– Louise L. Hay
“It ain’t what they call you, it’s what you answer to.”
– W.C. Fields
“Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance.” ~ Bruce Barton
“It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves.” –Sir Edmund Hillary
“Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.” –Peter T. Mcintyre

Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

The image you choose to have of yourself directly impacts your state of mind and the world you see.

Parsha Ponderings

Parshat Re'eh
Behold, I set before you today a blessing and a curse.-Devarim 11:26(דברים יא כו-רְאֵ֗ה אָֽנֹכִ֛י נֹתֵ֥ן לִפְנֵיכֶ֖ם הַיּ֑וֹם בְּרָכָ֖ה וּקְלָלָֽה)
We know that whatever is written in the Torah was never only for that particular time but for every generation and that each letter ,each line in the Torah can be understood on many different levels.
Why does the verse mention "today"?It was not a once off thing but before us every day and dependent our fulfilling Hashem's commandments.
So again Why "today"?
I would like to suggest that this is one of the most empowering verses in the Torah showing us that we are absolutely never stuck, we are never locked in ,we are never prisoner's of our past, we are never defined by the mistakes we have made, we are never too far gone etc
For each new day G-d gifts us in a majestic manner of ultimate validation with a choice to take the road of blessing, the right road, the road of purpose, direction, meaning or the road that will immediately or eventually show it's curse, it's darkness,it's destruction.
A message of unbelievable hope, no matter what ,with each new we can day keep working ,learning etc so that we can identify the right road but if we have not and still are blessed with a new day we have the possibility to learn more , to do things differently and be a conduit of true blessing in this world, EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US-That is how important You are.