Do you want the perfect relationship? here is the key
Understand that your partner is not perfect and neither are you and that gives you the best chance to be perfect for each other
Sunday, April 26, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#426
When you assume limits that are not there you will always have the void of what could have been and thats not fair
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#425
If you are still doing what you have always done you will get and feel what you have always got and always felt
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#424
Before getting bent out of shape by what others say and do see what shape they are truly in
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#423
The word for fear in hebrew is פחד which has the same root as the "to push לדחוף the lesson being that when faced with a fear you have to choose the direction you allow it to push you in.Downwards and thus taking control of you or upwards and turning your fear into heaven sent springboards to game changing achievement and fulfillment
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#422
If G-d has granted you another day whatever you have done ,forgive yourself and do what you need to do to make things right and move on.You have not justified or made excuses for what you have done you have just built a bridge over it making sure you can go forward and do things differently.We all have the same 24 hours and doing nothing gives you what you always had until it gets worse as nothing remains stagnant.You can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#421
Abraham broke off from the herd and acknowledged the Master when he realized that he is a piece of the Master and the Masterpiece that was Abraham's life has been resonating within us for generations.
Embrace the uniqueness that is you and pour that wholeheartedly into whatever you do whether it is waiting tables ,collecting garbage ,sweeping the streets you, will be legendary and create your own economy.----you can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Embrace the uniqueness that is you and pour that wholeheartedly into whatever you do whether it is waiting tables ,collecting garbage ,sweeping the streets you, will be legendary and create your own economy.----you can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#420
G-D created you so you can never say I can't because you do not know the extent of what you are truly capable of .Only the manufacturer knows the true, full capability of his/her product.
We only say we cant
Due to the hypnotic dance of the herd that tell us what we can and cannot do
We only say we cant
Due to the hypnotic dance of the herd that tell us what we can and cannot do
We want things to happen when we want them to and dont realize that G-D has the stopwatch not us
We are too lazy and /or too fearful to venture out of our comfort zone
We limit ourselves by judgements and assumptions and thus do not see past them
Let us not have the hubris to act as if we created ourselves and bow to the wisdom of our "Manufacturer, " Creator who knows what we are capable of and puts no cap on our potential,abilities etc at times we just have different pieces to play with but we remain unlimited.
You can always takeit higher you have G-D within
You can always takeit higher you have G-D within
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#419
The meaning of Life is to allow G-D to help you get to know the gift that is you.
The purpose of life is to give it to the world.
When you are self-less you make the world more-postively
The purpose of life is to give it to the world.
When you are self-less you make the world more-postively
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#417
Cherish your path for it is golden only unto you..let G-D show you the gold
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#416
A great quote from Les Brown"Discipline yourself not to talk about what you do for a living...but focus your mind on what you are living to do!"
Thursday, April 23, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#412
When you focus on the beautiful in everyone and every thing you wont miss the ugly you will just be looking at it in the context of the beautiful in its correct dimensions and you will bask in the holy rays of the miraculous and the beautiful when others might be sinking in the quicksand of the ugly they have chosen to focus on..You can always take it higher ..you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#411
To be or not to be is not the question
Who to become or who not to become is the question
As in the grand scheme , the bigger picture etc it is not really what you get or how much you have, what you do etc,they all have their place, it is who you become and you can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Who to become or who not to become is the question
As in the grand scheme , the bigger picture etc it is not really what you get or how much you have, what you do etc,they all have their place, it is who you become and you can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#410
What you think you are beyond you will never look for and thus you will never find it.
With a Redemption mindset you are never beyond anything positive you can always take it higher ,you have G-D within you
With a Redemption mindset you are never beyond anything positive you can always take it higher ,you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#409
When your heart is in the Heavens remember that your body is on earth and when both are congruent you will find some heaven on earth
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#408
Something that you have chosen to see as an affront..put it in the back, your beautiful life is not worth the delay
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#407
I have to quote a Bishop,Bishop T.D. Jakes,simply a brilliant deep quote:
Its not what you leave to your children,its what you leave in them.
Wednesday, April 22, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#405
UNCONDITIONAL-YOUR NEW LEASE ON LIFE
BEING UNCONDITIONAL(ALSO AWARE) UNLEASHES YOUR SOUL AND MEANS NOONE HAS A HOLD ON YOU,YOU ARE TRULY FREE TO BE GREAT ,GOOD,WARM ,LOVING ,CARING,POSITIVE, CONFIDENT ,GRATEFUL WHEN EVER YOU WANT
YOU ARE ABOVE PEOPLES WORDS AND REACTIONS...YOU REALIZE THAT LIFE IS TOO PRECIOUS NOT TO BE FREE TO BE THE AWESOME ,DIVINE,UNIQUE ,AMAZING YOU
YOU HAVE THE STRENGTH TO MOVE ON WHEN OTHERS STUBBORNLY STICK TO BEING STUCK
YOU HUG THE LIFE YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN, BASK IN ITS GRATEFUL LIGHT WHICH JUST MIGHT BRIGHTEN THE WAY TO THE LIFE YOU CAN STILL ACHIEVE
YOU START TO REALIZE HOW UNLIMITED YOU ARE,G-D'S SUBLIME ETERNAL BEAUTY FILLS YOUR WHOLE BEING
YOU SMILE MORE
YOU HAVE A LITTLE DANCE IN YOUR STEP
YOUR BREATH IS TAKEN WAY
YOU ARE SUDDENLY MORE AWARE,YOUR SENSES HEIGHTENED
TEARS OF JOY COME TO YOUR EYES AND YOU MIGHT NOT KNOW WHY
BEING UNCONDITIONAL IS A REBIRTH..A NEW LEASE ON LIFE,YOU WALK AMONG OTHERS BUT YOU LIVE AT DIFFERENT LEVEL,YOU ARE TOTALLY PRESENT IN THE AWESOME POWER THAT DOMINION OF THE SOUL OVER THE BODY BRINGS
GIVE YOUR SELF THE TIME TO BE UNCONDITIONAL ,MAKE IT YOUR CONSCIOUS AND YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS
YOU CAN ALWAYS TAKE IT HIGHER YOU HAVE G-D WITHIN YOU
Tuesday, April 21, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#403
Dont settle ,make great the going rate.....you can always take it higher..you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#401
Dont tear people down just help them realize they can build and go higher
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#400
Sometimes we have an issue getting past a loved one's , a friend's etc challenging behavior , words said etc... maybe you need to learn to H.U.G.
Humble- realize everyone has their story which G-D has allowed them to author through their choices at their pace.Trust that G-D is proof reading all the time and has the bigger picture
Unconditional-dont make ego based decisions,actions reactions etc.Let people be themselves, let go of the petty move on.
When you are unconditional, you are just being the best version of you that you can be to live your best life and in so doing you will be an inspiration and a source of light to others
When you are unconditional, you are just being the best version of you that you can be to live your best life and in so doing you will be an inspiration and a source of light to others
Gratitude-Be grateful for the people in your life ,how would you feel without them( G-D forbid)?.
See the whole person, remember the good they have done and realize they have the right to think and be different to you.Most importantly remember that you have fallen too,remember why, the understanding,sensitivity,consideration,help etc that you needed, wanted or requested
See the whole person, remember the good they have done and realize they have the right to think and be different to you.Most importantly remember that you have fallen too,remember why, the understanding,sensitivity,consideration,help etc that you needed, wanted or requested
Monday, April 20, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#397
How people treat you is their understanding of the privilege of being a unique creation of G-D..How you react is yours
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#396
People do not have to subscribe to your definitions, understanding their definitions will be the bridge that will expand your definitions and preserve your relationships
Example
One person defines friendship as a daily phone call or more and meeting at least once week
Another person defines friendship as being there for a person when they need them most , calling once a week or so and meeting once a month
When either side is full of their biased expectations then friction will ensue and the friendship might end
However when one or both strive to understand the others definition of friendship one might find that all the other wants to be is good friends and the other might find that they are already regarded as a good friend from the others perspective
However when one or both strive to understand the others definition of friendship one might find that all the other wants to be is good friends and the other might find that they are already regarded as a good friend from the others perspective
Keep your definitions fluid then you will preserve ,enhance and gain relationships
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#395
Greatness is an inside job ..given to you even before birth as a gift from G-D ...let it out you have an endless supply
Sunday, April 19, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#394
Smoother ,more harmonious and mutually beneficial Communication
Many have an innate proclivity to assume that another's intention is aligned with theirs and thus assume total congruency and react as if the other person thinks and feels as they do,attacking aggressively when they disagree or present something differently because another did not think,act or react as they do
This arrogant proclivity is the source of much discord because when people actually take time to clarify another's understanding and intention many times they find that another person simply comes from a totally differently place with the best intention but they simply might have misunderstood something or that something means something different to them or " heaven forbid " they see things differently
Before Jumping to conclusions we should stand firmly on the ground step back get the whole picture,clarify everything and then our conclusion will not be a jump but a step in the right direction
Some questions to aid in this all important endeavor
What do you mean?
What does this mean to you?
How do you see this?
What do you feel about this?
Where are you coming from?
How did you arrive at this conclusion?
And then without war in ones words stating firstly
I hear you
Repeat what they say to make sure you are clear and it shows validation and respect
Find some point of honest agreement in actuality or in potential no matter how small and say for example
I agree( people like others to agree with them) that if ___was the case____ would probably be the result
Then
Always ask permission,it does not show weakness but civility and respect
for example
Could put I forward another perspective?
Would you consider hearing another angle ?
Could I share what I feel about this?
Would you consider another option?
I would like to humbly suggest something if possible
There are exceptions but if you want to another to actually listen to you and gain the possibility of making progress NEVER say
You are wrong or
whats wrong with you? etc
whats wrong with you? etc
Rather consider saying
The way I see it is
What I have learnt is
According to my experience
What I have been told is etc
Another suggestion
Again there are exceptions but ,never say no immediately , give people the respect of saying that you will think about it, mull it over etc.
This simple practice will go along way to strengthening relationships and connections
This simple practice will go along way to strengthening relationships and connections
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#393
The Power of Humility
.The humble person is never a know -it-all and always open to learning
The humble person does not pursue the limelight because the light shines from within
The humble person finds joy in their achievements,talents and success because they know its from G-D
The humble person is not afraid of criticism and embraces the opportunity to grow and gain perspective
The humble person does not get distracted by praise but rather ascribes everything to G-D
The humble person is not jealous for they are cognizant of the uniqueness of their path
The humble person is never a doormat but is secure enough to recognize the strength and goodness in others
The humble person sees nothing as deserved but rather as a blessing from G-D, an expression of G-D's love ,kindness ,mercy and is always full of gratitude
The humble person has no problem saying " I am sorry"
The humble person finds fulfillment in giving as they know without G-D's never ending giving none of us would be living
.The humble person is never a know -it-all and always open to learning
The humble person does not pursue the limelight because the light shines from within
The humble person finds joy in their achievements,talents and success because they know its from G-D
The humble person is not afraid of criticism and embraces the opportunity to grow and gain perspective
The humble person does not get distracted by praise but rather ascribes everything to G-D
The humble person is not jealous for they are cognizant of the uniqueness of their path
The humble person is never a doormat but is secure enough to recognize the strength and goodness in others
The humble person sees nothing as deserved but rather as a blessing from G-D, an expression of G-D's love ,kindness ,mercy and is always full of gratitude
The humble person has no problem saying " I am sorry"
The humble person finds fulfillment in giving as they know without G-D's never ending giving none of us would be living
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#392
Voices at different keys come together to form a dynamic harmony which sounds most beautiful when each sings with the other at the right time without undue prominence.
Allow your lives and relationships to be open to a workable harmony where each and everyone is heard and respected, disagreement voiced in an appropriate manner and at an appropriate time. Healthy positive perspective allows all the parts to find their suitable places at any given moment resulting in the harmony that could be your life at any given time.
Allow your lives and relationships to be open to a workable harmony where each and everyone is heard and respected, disagreement voiced in an appropriate manner and at an appropriate time. Healthy positive perspective allows all the parts to find their suitable places at any given moment resulting in the harmony that could be your life at any given time.
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#389
Your inner concerto is the music of your soul played by the notes of your heart through the dance that is your life at the behest of the conductor , G-D
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#388
Todays logical is yesterdays illogical
For something to be proven it first takes belief,especially against the current herd thinking , imagination, creativity and a leap to go and take a risk put in the long arduous effort to prove it logical
For something to be proven it first takes belief,especially against the current herd thinking , imagination, creativity and a leap to go and take a risk put in the long arduous effort to prove it logical
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#387
To thank G-D with words only for the gift of life merely cheapens the gift.
You daily or even half hourly question no..your constant question should be
You daily or even half hourly question no..your constant question should be
In all that I think ,say,do act ,react etc am I showing true gratitude to G-D for the gift of life?
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#386
Who loses and argument?.
both sides as nothing is really achieved
both sides as nothing is really achieved
Who loses a discussion?
noone as both have learned something whether they got what they want or not and have a chance for a continued dialogue
noone as both have learned something whether they got what they want or not and have a chance for a continued dialogue
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#385
YOUR NOBILITY OF SPIRIT IS NOT DECIDED BY YOUR POSITION,BY YOUR STANDING, BY YOUR INFLUENCE , BY YOUR FINANCES
YOUR NOBILITY OF SPIRIT IS YOURS FOREVER A GIFT GIVEN TO YOU BY G-D UNCHANGEABLE BY ANYONE BUT MANIFESTED IN THE WORDS YOU CHOOSE, THE ACTIONS YOU TAKE,THE THOUGHTS YOU THINK AND THE ENVIRONMENT YOU CREATE
SO LET THIS GIFT NOT REMAIN HIDDEN BUT SHINE FORTH THROUGH YOUR EXAMPLE WHEREVER YOU MAY BE
AND MAKE THIS A MORE NOBLE WORLD WHICH IT WAS ALWAYS DESTINED TO BE
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#384
If someone has done something you disagree with.. you have to decide what your aim is
If it is to just make your point come what may then that is an ego response but a response nevertheless
If however you want a chance of getting anywhere I might suggest the following
If it is to just make your point come what may then that is an ego response but a response nevertheless
If however you want a chance of getting anywhere I might suggest the following
Instead of saying
I have a bone to pick with you
or
I dont like fighting but we have to talk
or
we always argue but this has to be addresses
etc
Rather say
or
I dont like fighting but we have to talk
or
we always argue but this has to be addresses
etc
Rather say
I have something important to me that I would like to discuss with you
Could you spare me a few moments there is something I would like your input on
I would love to hear your take on -------
etc etc
In other words take the war out of your words if you want peace and you can still make a strong firm point in way that increases your chances of actually making an impact that will get the point home
In other words take the war out of your words if you want peace and you can still make a strong firm point in way that increases your chances of actually making an impact that will get the point home
DESCRIBE DONT EVALUATE
YOU MAY GET SOMEONES ATTENTION BUT IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT THEY ARE LISTENING....YOU WANT THEIR EAR NOT THEIR FEAR..
edemption Coaching-U.L.M-#383
Don't wait for the light at the end of the tunnel turn on some light in the tunnel so you get to the end of the tunnel
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#382
Noone has fallen getting off their high horse but with humility they have learnt to ride
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#381
I want to start to show you how much power and impact G-D has given you
I call it the"transformer effect"
Todays exercise is directed at those of you who are honest enough to admit that you are blamaholics
I call it the"transformer effect"
Todays exercise is directed at those of you who are honest enough to admit that you are blamaholics
1.For the next week commit no matter what not to blame anyone for anything at all even if they blame you with a special focus on those whom you normally blame.
Find another constructive way without blame or accusation to get your point across in a positive manner.
Find another constructive way without blame or accusation to get your point across in a positive manner.
2.Repeat this affirmation as many times as you can throughout the day,write it down on a piece of paper and keep it in front of you
"Blaming someone gives the responsibility to others to change and if they dont I remain stuck.I will take responsibility for myself ,no matter the issue ,make the positive changes I need that will help me move forward because my life is too important to me"
"Blaming someone gives the responsibility to others to change and if they dont I remain stuck.I will take responsibility for myself ,no matter the issue ,make the positive changes I need that will help me move forward because my life is too important to me"
For one week go to the other extreme and do not blame or accuse at all.
Take 7 pieces of paper or a small pad and document any changes positive or negative that occur as a result of this extreme change and their impact on your part in your relationships and in general each day
Take 7 pieces of paper or a small pad and document any changes positive or negative that occur as a result of this extreme change and their impact on your part in your relationships and in general each day
The exercise is worth the effort you are worth the effort,but you must own this exercise take responsibility for it and make the best of it,give it your all and lets see what transpires
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#380
Don't hide behind the familiar....rise and find your greatness in the unfamiliar
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#379
If you are going to look for guarantees you will live a trapped life whose horizon will be the extent of your comfort zone, whose sun will be the dulling light of complacency and true love, excitement,growth ,creativity,potential,success closeness to G-D etc will be mere fantasy
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#378
Only true ironclad Emuna ...will prevent you from shutting down...will give you the air to breathe when the curve balls seem to have knocked all the air out....
EMUNA:
LEARN IT,LIVE IT,EXPERIENCE IT,BREATHE IT,LOOK FOR IT EVERYWHERE......THEN G-D WILLING THE CRACKS WILL WIDEN, THE LIGHT WILL SHINE AND THE MIRACLES THAT WERE ALWAYS THERE WILL COME FLOODING IN
LEARN IT,LIVE IT,EXPERIENCE IT,BREATHE IT,LOOK FOR IT EVERYWHERE......THEN G-D WILLING THE CRACKS WILL WIDEN, THE LIGHT WILL SHINE AND THE MIRACLES THAT WERE ALWAYS THERE WILL COME FLOODING IN
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Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#376
Change your definitions you change your life....it is that simple to get started
Example:
A person previously defined success as being accepted by people and in so doing was living a life of frustration, stress and anxiety and pressure
One day the person decided that " my success is positively accepting myself for who I am right now and building on that no matter what others think "is today living a more joyous ,fulfilling and quality life with constant growth
When his definitions changed his life started to change
Friday, April 17, 2015
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Thursday, April 16, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#374
The 5/100 club
If you owned a car in excellent working order would you
have it pushed by someone while you are in it or would you drive it?
have your bags ,carried or put them in the boot/trunk of the car?
If you owned a car in excellent working order would you
have it pushed by someone while you are in it or would you drive it?
have your bags ,carried or put them in the boot/trunk of the car?
The questions seem ludicrous..but consider
Would you say to yourself I am okay with having the car pushed I dont need more than this
Would you further say I dont need to put my bags in the boot/trunk I want someone to carry them while the car is being pushed
Would you say to yourself I am okay with having the car pushed I dont need more than this
Would you further say I dont need to put my bags in the boot/trunk I want someone to carry them while the car is being pushed
Still ludicrous
Well I put to you that most of us do the same with the lives G-D has given us.
We settle, resign ourselves to life , we pick the most comfortable complacent recliner for our comfort zone and we pick out the glasses that will not allow us to see further than our comfort zone.
We settle, resign ourselves to life , we pick the most comfortable complacent recliner for our comfort zone and we pick out the glasses that will not allow us to see further than our comfort zone.
We push our cars instead of driving and exploring the awesome possibilities, the potential that G-D has placed within us,the impact we can have , the lives we could touch, the things we could achieve,the goodness, the greatness ,the inspiration that we could pour into the world from the easel of the Master piece that can be our lives as we are pieces of the Master
Those who push cars they could be driving succumb to the menace of mediocrity those that decide to drive will eventually unlimit themselves into the embrace of the constantly greater versions of themselves.They will redeem their days and in so doing eventually their lives.Allowing us to express our epic, our iconic, our awesome, our legendary in total congruence with our exceptionally unique standing as creations of G-D
The 5/100 Club
Hopes to take the 5% that drive their cars and turn eventually as close as we can into 100% and in so doing elevating ourselves our families, our nations ,our environments and indeed the world...
G-D knows you are worth the effort and believes in you..so should you
G-D knows you are worth the effort and believes in you..so should you
You can always take it higher..you have G-D within you
Join the 5/100 Club and start making the rest of your life the best of your life
Wednesday, April 15, 2015
Tuesday, April 14, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#372
Holiness does not come from those who detach themselves from the world but rather from those who find the holiness in everyone and everything and in so doing elevate themselves ,their surroundings,those that are with them and in deed the world,uniting the sparks.
Your humanity is your unique path to holiness, it is yours to work through and rise beyond imagining..Holiness through Humanity...you can always take it higher....you have G-D within you
Your humanity is your unique path to holiness, it is yours to work through and rise beyond imagining..Holiness through Humanity...you can always take it higher....you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#371
Develop a positive insatiable hunger for Hashem, for holiness and you will merit intimacy with the holiness within you...you can always take it higher..you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#370
Belief, declaration,statement unaccompanied by action are nothing more than indecisive fantasy
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#369
The longest roots are never uprooted by the strongest of winds and nurture the tallest trees.Iron clad emuna allows the longest and strongest of roots to grow , consistently greater heights to be reached and a life of miraculous meaning,iconic impact and epic contribution to be lived
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#368
Some of us have so many airs that in the end we are taken by the winds without leaving an imprint of our true selves.Let humility keep us grounded for only with it are we able to let G-D in and then reach beyond the stars
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#366
If "good enough" is in your vocabulary you will never try your best.If you try your best whatever you do will be good enough
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#365
When G-d is in all that you do and say then nothing you do or say is a waste no matter how mundane but rather part of the puzzle of your spiritual perfection transforming the mundane into the majestic
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#362
Your authenticity is your G-D given power , it is uniquely you,disguised, camouflaged by the dictates of the herd, darkened by the magnetism of our egos,imprisoned by complacency and the comfort of habit.It awaits our recognition and then on the wings of rehabilitated choices we come to live a life not as casualties but as champions of our circumstances--you can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#361
Another name for G-D is המקום the place , the location.If the reality that is G-D is where you are always located you will be left standing when the storm passes, no wind will make you fickle, you will be a bastion of stability but also a powerhouse of productivity and an agent of the impossible with miracles as your currency
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#358
Every situation ,every issue, very challenge etc has a spiritual and physical aspect whether we like it or not.The soul"sees" much further than the eye, to reject its input is to fill an airplanes tank with fuel but to leave it grounded
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#357
The fears that the physical instills within us are turned into the seeds of new found strength by the spiritual
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#356
A spiritual perspective gives you a much broader physical perspective, as where the physical perceives an end the spiritual has barely begun to notice a beginning..You can always taking it higher....you have G-D within you----Redemption Coaching
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#355
A Redemption mindset does not allow travel on a path of postponement but embraces choice as the key G-D gives us to find the light that shines on the path with massive action to the greatest version of ourselves in total unity with the all encompassing oneness that is G-D
Thursday, April 9, 2015
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#354
Decide to be determined ...make the Journey to eventually be present in and focus on what you have and not what you are missing and then you may still find what you are looking for
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#352
There is one thing about you that will never change despite your challenges , circumstances ,crisis etc ,your soul. Make or keep your soul as boss, give yourself the chance to shine you can always take it higher ..you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#351
G-D has ensured that you will never ,no matter what you do be a first rate version of someone else,but you can be a first rate version of yourself,it may take time but as long as that is your goal..you are already in the magnetic field of first rate because you can always take it higher..you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#350
Your are not beholden to any part of your past,your history , you can appreciate the impact because it has been,take what you need to and merge into your authentic now and write a new chapter of your life....Remember you can always take it higher you have G-D within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#349
Learn to silence your minds chatter and whitewash the billboards your Yetser Hara or inner saboteur sends to your thoughts,just be present dont engage,entertain or empower them , dont grant them existence and you will feel G-D within you, the unfettered power of your soul,the place within you that you cannot divide,where wholeness reigns ,the all encompassing Source that is G-D
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#348
March to the music that you hear,it is your own beautiful authentic voice, allow G-D to conduct and your life starts to change overnight
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#347
The message you project, exude, give over is in many cases the answer you will receive.If your message is give me, give me ,give me ..you will feel life demanding from you give me, give me, give.If you shift your focus to how can I contribute, add value, serve help etc then in many cases that is response you will eventually attract.
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#345
Pour the goodness,greatness,giving,gratitude that is embedded within your soul into every moment and you will have no matter your circumstance an authentically unforgettable life.You can always go higher...you have G-d within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#344
You do not truly love if you do not give,your greatest contribution is giving of yourself in all you say and do because then whatever you give becomes living testimony of your love,the depth of your connection---You can always go higher...You have G-d within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#343
When you make the conscious choice to see what comes your way or where you find yourself as instructive and not obstructive,you may still have a fight on your hands but you have just increased your chances of victory and emerging an even greater person exponentially. Remember you have G-d within you,you can always go higher
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#342
The second you think that any person or any situation can make you think or feel anything you have lost your freedom and you are in an Egypt of your making.The only way you can leave is when you unleaven your words and leave the confines of power draining words immediately into the discomfort zone of choice empowering words that will help you get the most of your life changing redeeming gift of choice that G-d has given you expanding your horizons,seeing more options,growing more, achieving more, finding more happiness, fulfillment and even clearing up your sight to see the miracles and blessings that have always been there....you can always go higher,you have G-d within you
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#341
There is not much more liberating than doing what's right unconditionally without judgement or expectation but with eyes wide open.For then you are free of ego, not waiting for a quid pro quo, not looking for approval,honor,recognition etc just doing the right thing unhindered making the world a better place because of you.The funny things is that the more you do this the more recognition,money,love etc pursue you in accordance with your true needs.....in other words wholeheartedly doing G-d's will
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#340
Don't make G-d the scapegoat of your bad choices,own them,redeem them,make new choices
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#339
The more you are aware of your fallibility....the more you will learn to forgive yourself and others thus strengthening the infallible you...your soul as boss
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#338
Don't live your present in trepidation of the future for then you will not see your present as a gift
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#337
G-d works in mysterious ways, not accidental ways....so live with purpose....shine with life...think with meaning....see with gratitude for you are the lighthouse through which G-d brightens your path in concert with your level of authenticity manifest in the power of your connection to G-d
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#334
10 REALIZATIONS OF A SPIRITUAL GIANT
Inculcate,Embrace, Apply and let G-D keep taking you Higher
Inculcate,Embrace, Apply and let G-D keep taking you Higher
1.I was created by the Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be
2. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be thought I was worth creating
3. I am loved by the Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be
4. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be created me totally unique, there is noone, there never has been and there never will be anyone like me.
5. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be created everything that happens in my life to bring me closer to" Him" , to help me grow, to become better and spread "His" love and goodness all the while leading my greatest life
6.The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be enjoined us to strive to emulate "Him" knowing that we can never be "Him" thus ensuring that there is no cap on our growth,there are no limits to the heights we can reach, the goodness we can spread
7. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is ,was or ever will be never gives up on us.
8. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be has given me infinite worth and value that cannot be diminished by anyone
9. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be is the only true dynamic reality thus ensuring that nothing is set in stone,anything and everything is possible and there is always hope
10. The Creator and Maintainer of all that is was or ever will be sent an angel to teach us all we will ever need to know when we were in the womb and then tapped us above the lip creating the philtrum which is a constant reminder that all we ever need for our greatest life we have, we have been down that road before.We have to believe in ourselves just like G-D does and we will learn to access that which the angel taught us and present to the world the Masterpiece that is our life being that we are a piece of the Master
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#331
Your value is yours, totally unique ,unlike any other given to you as a gift from G-d.Noone can diminish it in any way so be of value and no matter the circumstances show your best and that will impress the rest for you stand atop your mountain and inspire others to aspire
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#330
Obviously in extreme cases there are exceptions however:
When interacting with someone do not look at them with tunnel vision see the whole person, the whole picture in actuality and in potential
Then
If there is something that was said that you find hard to get past or get over despite your best efforts
If there is something that was said that you find hard to get past or get over despite your best efforts
If there is something that was done that you cannot change
If you are stuck somewhere in some issue etc
Be wary of and honest about your own fallibility and then with humility
Stop...step back
And learn to build a bridge over that which has been done and cannot be changed specifically and in general in order to preserve important relationships move on and go forward to live your greatest life as the constantly best version of you that G-D allows you to present to the world at any one time
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#329
People with impoverished vocabularies live emotionally impoverished lives. People with rich vocabularies have a multi-hued palette of colors with which to paint their life's experience, not only for others, but for themselves as well.-Tony Robbins
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#328
Successful people ask better questions
Happier people ask better questions
Fulfilled people ask better questions
The questions we ask lead to the decisions we make and to make the better decisions we need to have the appropriate mindset and be in a suitable state of mind
Having a Redemption mindset and being in a grateful state of mind will give you the clarity to ask the questions that will lead G-d willing to the changes you need and the quality of life that will follow a constantly better version of you that your efforts will present to the world at any one time........
To learn to ask your better questions
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Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#327
You are only as strong as your relationships,the most important three being between you and G-D ,between you and yourself ,between you and your family
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#326
“Tact: the ability to describe others as they see themselves.”
― Abraham Lincoln
― Abraham Lincoln
I would add" and as they wish to see themselves"
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#325
Dont wait for tragedy to be inspirational and extraordinary.....banish complacency...outshine the sun at its brightest..there is no match for your unique holy light
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#324
Learn to build a bridge over that which has been done and cannot be changed specifically and in general in order to preserve important relationships move on and go forward
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#323
There are too many of us who are overfed but with undernourished lives looking for fulfillment, meaningful direction and happiness....nourish your soul truly and your body will follow eagerly... note to self
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#322
A Redemption mindset nurtures a daily motivation to make the rest of our lives the best of our lives
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#321
You greatness is waiting for you with open arms right outside your comfort zone
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#320
You are only locked into your comfort zone by your choices..choose differently
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#319
When you live your life in a redemption mindset whether in business,at home,in general you will be that rare , shining beacon in a world searching for meaning
Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#317
One name of G-D is Hamakom( המקום) the place,one reason seems to be because wherever you are, wherever you choose to be located, be present is what counts,what can get you through ,make success achievable.Whenever you are present in G-D,when G-D is your core,your primary presence the landscape of your life changes, the topography of your challenges shift,what use to be a mountain may now be a hill,what you used to be beyond your horizon may now be in clear sight etc.
With a Redemption mindset through a lens of gratitude your access to the core presence, our true location in the reality that is G-D becomes stronger,more enhanced,more intense, more achievable
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