Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#918

If you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel get out of the tunnel and learn to see all the light around you no matter how small you initially may think it is

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#917

If you are open to learning that you are a whole lot more than you think you are.You will land up doing and feeling a whole lot more than you thought you could

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#916

Below is the Dayenu song we sing at the Pesach Seder,or as some like to call it the Gratitude song.There is much written about it and the lessons abound.
I would like to offer one:
"If He had destroyed their idols, and had not smitten their first-born Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!"

It would have sufficed if Hashem has only destroyed their Idols?..obviously not as other wise we would not have left Egypt

Consider: so many of us do for others or have other do so much for us which at times does not work out , does not bring a result we like, is not to our taste etc etc and we dismiss them or halfheartedly acknowledge , notice the effort or thank them

We are being taught here among others : If someone with best intentions did something for you, took their time, their effort, their emotions ,their resources ,which they could have used for different purposes and if we see life in general not as deserved but as a blessing from Hashem, if we sincerely believe that noone owes us a thing and all that they do for us no matter how small is a HUGE favor then full of humble appreciation whether they got us the result we wanted , whether or not what they did was to our personal taste their mere effort would have sufficed , a subjectively appropriate desired result would simple be an added bonus
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If He had brought us out from Egypt, and had not carried out judgments against them Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had carried out judgments against them, and not against their idols Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had destroyed their idols, and had not smitten their first-born Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had smitten their first-born, and had not given us their wealth Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had given us their wealth, and had not split the sea for us Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had split the sea for us, and had not taken us through it on dry land Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had taken us through the sea on dry land, and had not drowned our oppressors in it Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had drowned our oppressors in it, and had not supplied our needs in the desert for forty years Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had supplied our needs in the desert for forty years, and had not fed us the manna Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had fed us the manna, and had not given us the Shabbat Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had given us the Shabbat, and had not brought us before Mount Sinai Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had brought us before Mount Sinai, and had not given us the Torah Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had given us the Torah, and had not brought us into the land of Israel Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!

If He had brought us into the land of Israel, and had not built for us the Beit Habechirah (Chosen House; the Beit Hamikdash) Dayenu, it would have sufficed us!(Song translation from chabad.org)

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#915

Between Robin Sharma and Pirkei Avot
Robin Sharma says"And victory belongs to those who love learning. Because as you know more, you can achieve more. And where most only see volatility (economically, politically, societally), you will have trained [and bulletproofed] your brain to spot purely opportunity. "

This is what most of the internationally successful gurus of Personal Mastery preach among others things

Yet more than a thousand years beforehand the treasure trove of true mastery and greatness that is Pirkei Avot mentions in the 48 ways of acquiring Torah that the first way is B'Talmud...not Talmud B'Talmud ( In Learning)
In other words the first way of acquiring is not just learning it is to be in learning always ,never off duty,cherishing every second of the gift that is our lives,constantly drinking in the awesome lessons that constantly surround us in this beautiful world. Being open to be taught,open to what can be learnt from our interactions with people etc

We have always within our grasp , the Torah,the true Key the Ultimate Life Mastery "program" given to us by the eternal Master, Hashem

So if Robin Sharma says above"Because as you know more, you can achieve more"...imagine what can be achieved,in all areas of life, with the "Ultimate Life Mastery "program" " -The Torah

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#914

Your only true limits are the ones you believe as what you believe sets the boundaries of what you will achieve.
Emuna and Bitachon open the boundaries of what you believe to anything and everything that G-D allows you to achieve.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#913

Your "weaknesses" are G-D's invitation to greatness, for enduring authentic greatness, accessible to all ,only comes through constant work , effort, resilience , reevaluation etc.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#912

Only once you appreciate your self worth, given to you by G-D, ,unchangeable by others, can you truly start seeing and acknowledging your strengths. For your strengths are tools you need to face your challenges.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#911

When you register that your children do not have to be perfect you will appreciate their beauty and raise them from a place of greatness that is the Divine privilege of being their parent.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#910

Rav Yerucham Levovitz zt”l is quoted as saying the following:

Woe to the man who does not recognize his faults, for he does not know what he needs to repair. But oy vavoy, double woe, to the man who does not recognize his virtues, for then he is not even aware of his tools.
Rav Orlowek shlit”a writes this in the name of Rav Wolbe zt”l who in turn is quoting Rav Levovitz zt”l (My Child My Disciple p. 135).

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#909

Dont feel sorry for yourself... feel grateful for yourself

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#908

No matter where a Jew decides to live the only country where a Jew can sing this song in , where it holds true meaning, is in Israel.What an awesome privilege to sing it as we do in our Shul whenever someone has made Aliyah.
וְיֵשׁ-תִּקְוָה לְאַחֲרִיתֵךְ, נְאֻם-יְהוָה; וְשָׁבוּ בָנִים, לִגְבוּלָם.
And there is hope for your future, says the LORD; and the children return to their own border

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#907

Why wait for a deathbed?
Most people who ( G-d forbid) have to see a loved one on a deathbed let all issues,all petty nonsense, all negative ego based folly melt away.The love washes over them , what they cherish fills them even though pain may for a time overtake.

Why do we have to wait for deathbed experience?( G-d forbid)

Let the needless nonsense , petty negative ego based issues,the pride, the self involvement dissipate as if they never were.

YOUR LIFE,LIFE IN GENERAL IS TOO PRECIOUS

Learn to look beyond, to transcend ,to look past, to forgive, to cherish,to love fully and openly hugging what is truly important

Make the space for others to express themselves in your life
for when you are self..less you become so much more.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#906

"To resist the influence of others knowledge of oneself is important"Teal'c SG-1
A fictional figure but much wisdom in the words.
Be open to connecting to your authentic self, know who you truly are, learn about who you truly are, a totally unique aspect of G-D whose light has a totally unique shine.
You are a Masterpiece as you are a piece of the Master

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#905

Point of Confluence

Each and every moment is a point of confluence where all the different influences, aspects ,developments, experiences,changes etc of your life have converged.Your choices decide how the cumulative of power of your point of confluence will be made manifest,impact the world,and what version of you , you present to the world.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#904

Motivation to forgive

Those unique individuals,whom I call the honest elite,knights of integrity that will face head on and own the mistakes they have made,the people they may have hurt,the questionable deeds they may have done,the ingratitude and entitlement they may have shown

Yet make the courageous choice to realize that each new moment which they are granted is not excusing or justifying what they or others may have said or done but a gift of loving forgiveness from G-D tearing away any arrogance and with humble fortitude granting forgiveness to others knowing fully how many times they themselves have needed forgiveness
Forgiveness is never an excuse for what was said or done but letting of what holds us back ,of tunnel vision empowering us to appreciate the whole person ,others and ourselves..opening our hearts to our great potential and that in others that is fine tuned,made more clear ,strengthened on the battleground of our subjectivity with the light of G-d's loving clarity leading the way.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#903

הִשָּׁמֶר לְךָ, פֶּן-תִּשְׁכַּח אֶת-יְהוָה אֱלֹהֶיךָ,....דברים ח,יא
Be wary,lest you forget Hashem your G-d- Deuteronomy 8:11
Forget not Hashem in all you say and do and then you will always remember who you truly are.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#902

On Shabbat We are given a Neshama Yeteira( an additional soul), a weekly reminder that we are so much more than we think we are and can be. When we get in touch with how Divinely Awesome each and everyone of us are and can be....no matter our lives ,it will be a different level of existence.

Shabbat The Key to Authentic Living

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#901

if you treat your life casually you might invariably land up a casualty.Get in touch with your Divinely blessed champion within and live a life Divine despite your circumstances.
Let Shabbat's Endless light be the Limelight for your inner Champion to come out and Shine

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#900

Gratitude creates space as you realize that it is not all about you ,you notice others and then you go at the speed of your present understanding from I Space to Our Space.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#899

What we choose to let go of shows what we prefer to hold on to.

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#898

A Grateful person is a

Happier Person

More Hopeful Person

More Fulfilled Person

More Motivated Person

More Open Person

More Enthusiastic Person

More Energetic Person

More Giving Person

More Proactive Person

More Willing Person

More Understanding Person

More Forgiving Person

More Positive Person

More Empowered Person

Gratitude is so much more than Thank You ,Gratitude is always evolving, developing as long as there is life , momentum,action there is the real tangible access to Gratitude,an opportunity from G-D to open our eyes to life , to blessing, to miracles , to wonder, to the infinite potential G-D has instilled within us all.

Gratitude is G-D's invitation to peel away the layers of superficiality that we allow to mislead and misdirect us limiting us ,putting up walls past which we do not see but walls which hide the magnificence of life,the greatness in growth and the closeness to G-D that opens the door to truly living our authentic life , feeling alive and not letting life live us

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#897

With G-D anything and everything is possible all we are required to do is never give up , persist ,persevere, perspire...reevaluate ,be open.continue growing, learning and let G-D decide if you will succeed, your best interests could never be better taken care of

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#896

Who you admire is how you will inspire,If need be reevaluate who you admire then you will continue to take it higher.

 

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#895

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#894

How do the Jews keep going despite the world?
Simcha-no matter how dark the cloud we have the suns rays in our hearts and Simcha,even a spark, keeps us going until we can make a fire.
ישמח לב מבקשי ה'....מצווה גדולה להיות בשמחה....עבדו את ה' בשמחה....

Redemption Coaching-U.L.M-#893

We all have a place within us where anything is possible.That place is G-D, a reason why G-D is also called "haMakom",the place.When anything is possible within us so much more becomes possible around us