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Don't get caught up in definitions for if you do you may just blind yourself to what you have , what you have achieved,what you are capable of doing etc.
Be open and fluid , remain unattached to that which keeps you detached

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Remember: any words you hear,read are taught etc only impact you according to the meaning you assign them.
Be wary of how you assign consciously and subconsciously and then reevaluate, realign redeem according to your highest values

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If you think of regression as part of a dance you 
will always progress for one or more steps backwards invariably means more steps forward

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The Ten Commandments of Communication
Clarity
Simplicity
Timing
Openness
Understanding
Humility
Structure
Active Listening
Heart
Respect

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People do not have to agree with you, what they have to do is live their Divinely forged lives as authentically as they can through their eyes and if that means agreeing with you that is the only time they really need to.
G-D gave us our unique journeys to travel as we were created so that we progress ,learn,experience and grow in the best possible way to stay on track with our autenrically true destiny.

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Many times when we think we are communicating with others we are in reality communicating only with ourselves.
Why?
Because many times in truth we see only what we want to see,hear only what we want to hear without making room for others to be heard accepted and respected for being them.
Reevaluate...Realign....Redeem
Let's leaving the playing G-d to G-d

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Silence the chatter of your mind and you will be amazed by what you find

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When you start to doubt yourself the tentacles of your comfort zone are trying to pull you back in

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If what you understand intellectually is not understood in your heart nothing will change.
As Tony Robbins says the quality of our lives is determined by the quality of where we live emotionally

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Your true sight is never what you see but how you choose to see it which generally changes what you think you see.

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When you learn to identify and acknowledge your flash points you will open yourself up to turning them into growth points and then suddenly what has to be is replaced by what could be( positively).

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Don't let the need to care be something rare for without it as people we are bare. 
Let it be the badge we wear at the same time being knowingly aware
Each and every one of us was created beyond compare and when you care you may just make life for someone feel a little more fair.

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Be careful that your quest for answers does not override the need for questions.

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C.omposed
composure facilitates clarity
O.bserve
you cannot talk when you truly observe and when you observe without talking you see so much more.
R.estraint
meaningful restraint side steps needless regret
E.ngage
Engage your body and soul in all that you do and allow yourself to truly receive and experience life which can truly be done when you remain open and fluid to all that is the gift of life on all levels.

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Tunnel Vision/Snapshot Syndrome

When you look through a tunnel that goes through a mountain obviously you do not see the whole world behind the mountain but only what appears at the tunnel exit

So too when you interact with people all you see is what your perception allows you to see.

Your are limited to your map of the world, you see people how you are not how they are

You are at every second of the day a point of confluence of everything that has happened to in your life at that particular point inside and out.

Other people are so much more than any one point of interaction, they are a world of life and experience on the outside and the inside on their unique tailor made life journey for them.

The first step to expanding your vision is to understand that when you are interacting with someone you are looking through a tunnel and seeing a snapshot.
Be open to the whole person that is and could be..G-d is so should we.

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Live a R.E.A.L. life
R.esilience(Bounce back always ,the more you bounce the higher you go)
E.nthusiasm( Get enthusiastic about life,the people in your life, give it the best you can)
A.ccept(that nothing and noone are perfect ,see the whole person)
L.ove(find reasons to love in life , what you do , the people, each gift that is each second etc)

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If you can see something in your mind you can hold it in your hand- Bob Proctor

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Your innermost dominant thought becomes your outermost tangible reality- DrJohn DeMartini
I would like to add
Not because thoughts have any power but because of the extended visa you give them in your State of mind

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t's quite a funny thing:
When you actually consider and learn about how positively and wonderfully unique G-d made you ,you willingly make space in your life for the uniqueness and differences of others no matter whether you agree with them or not

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Accept differences , respect differences, enjoy differences, learn from differences,expect differences
When you make space to love ,accept and respect people as they are(obviously there can be some extreme exceptions) you acknowledge that G-d created the world and not you

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Take nothing to heart , learn what to let into your heart for noone has the key to your heart but you and those or what you give it to.

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Some great Tony Robbins Quotes

Life is a gift, and it offers us the privilege, opportunity, and responsibility to give something back by becoming more. – Tony Robbins

The only limit to your impact is your imagination and commitment. – Tony Robbins

Beliefs have the power to create and the power to destroy. Human beings have the awesome ability to take any experience of their lives and create a meaning that disempowers them or one that can literally save their lives – Tony Robbins

Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach. – Tony Robbins

Only those who have learned the power of sincere and selfless contribution experience life’s deepest joy: true fulfillment. – Tony Robbins

Identify your problems, but give your power and energy to solutions. – Tony Robbins

A real decision is measured by the fact that you’ve taken a new action. If there’s no action, you haven’t truly decided. – Tony Robbins

“It is not what we get. But who we become, what
we contribute … that gives meaning to our lives.” – Tony Robbins

Most people fail in life because they major in minor things.” – Tony Robbins

It’s what you practice in private that you will be rewarded for in public. – Tony Robbins

I challenge you to make your life a masterpiece. I challenge you to join the ranks of those people who live what they teach, who walk their talk. – Tony Robbins

If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten. – Tony Robbins

More than anything else, I believe it’s our decisions, not the conditions of our lives that determine our destiny. – Tony Robbins

It’s not what’s happening to you now or what has happened in your past that determines who you become. Rather, it’s your decisions about what to focus on, what things mean to you, and what you’re going to do about them that will determine your ultimate destiny.” – Tony Robbins

The more rules you have about how people have to be, how life has to be for you to be happy, the less happy you’re going to be. – Tony Robbins

The only impossible journey is the one you never begin. – Tony Robbins

Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning you give it. – Tony Robbins

Everybody’s got a past. The past does not equal the future unless you live it there. – Tony Robbins

When you are grateful, fear disappears & abundance appears.” – Tony Robbins

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There are things more important than what you are afraid of-YOU

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Learning to help another carry their burden helps you enter their world and you gain a meaningful perspective which boosts them up giving them true validation and you expand as a person becoming a portal for blessing making the world that much of a better place