Transcending the I...Empowering the I
When it is all about I
What I want
What I need
What people should be saying
What people should be doing
What I am okay with
What I expect etc.....
The I is under pressure attacked by anger , frustration,peer pressure, insults,Jealously,the need to be liked,criticism,anxiety ,being over sensitive,stress blame etc
Some think when you give it all over to G-D you lose the I ,lose yourself,lose your individuality....
That could not be further from the truth
When you give it over to G-D ,its all about G-D so if someone does not react the way you think they should..you are not getting angry ,for example not getting anchored down by your anger....You are with your eyes open,with sober awareness... realizing that this challenge is from G-D...you are going to express your disagreement in a most respectful considerate manner that sanctifies G-D's name..even if it is a most difficult issue that needs to be expressed, you express your feelings without judgement..your endeavor to understand where the other is coming from,take nothing as a personal insult(its not about you its about G-D).....if they persist you realize that anger will just make things worse and even if harsh steps have to be taken..noone needs things to spiral out of control so no matter what the other says or does you proceed with intentions not clouded by anger.....in other words you transcend the I....your natural inclination to insult,name call ,berate ,etc....and hopefully in the end keep the doors open to resolution...
When you give it all over to G-D you dont lose the- I -you transcend the - I -leaving it intact not wounded by pressure ,insults ,frustrations ,keeping up with the joneses etc..and so you are free to be the true you unhindered by petty nonsense and continue growing to your G-D given potential and a consistently improving quality of life...... a lot of effort YES...you are worth it G-D thinks ..so should you(Obviously for the nit pickers there are always unique situations which require different measures and perspectives)
When it is all about I
What I want
What I need
What people should be saying
What people should be doing
What I am okay with
What I expect etc.....
The I is under pressure attacked by anger , frustration,peer pressure, insults,Jealously,the need to be liked,criticism,anxiety ,being over sensitive,stress blame etc
Some think when you give it all over to G-D you lose the I ,lose yourself,lose your individuality....
That could not be further from the truth
When you give it over to G-D ,its all about G-D so if someone does not react the way you think they should..you are not getting angry ,for example not getting anchored down by your anger....You are with your eyes open,with sober awareness... realizing that this challenge is from G-D...you are going to express your disagreement in a most respectful considerate manner that sanctifies G-D's name..even if it is a most difficult issue that needs to be expressed, you express your feelings without judgement..your endeavor to understand where the other is coming from,take nothing as a personal insult(its not about you its about G-D).....if they persist you realize that anger will just make things worse and even if harsh steps have to be taken..noone needs things to spiral out of control so no matter what the other says or does you proceed with intentions not clouded by anger.....in other words you transcend the I....your natural inclination to insult,name call ,berate ,etc....and hopefully in the end keep the doors open to resolution...
When you give it all over to G-D you dont lose the- I -you transcend the - I -leaving it intact not wounded by pressure ,insults ,frustrations ,keeping up with the joneses etc..and so you are free to be the true you unhindered by petty nonsense and continue growing to your G-D given potential and a consistently improving quality of life...... a lot of effort YES...you are worth it G-D thinks ..so should you(Obviously for the nit pickers there are always unique situations which require different measures and perspectives)
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