Redemption Coaching - Life Skills Training

Breakthrough Paradigm Demolition

When you invite into your self talk that absolutely nothing even if it is, no matter the evidence in support or against it ,has to be
You are rewiring your mind to face with and deal with what is no matter how tough but staying open, never giving and giving yourself the best chance as to what can be, no matter the ostensible odds.

Example:

The parents of a child who has attention deficit issues was told by the teacher that the child needs to be on ritalin.The teacher brought evidence backing the claim , the parents were told of many similar examples, and even after a professional outside evaluation it was suggested that the child take ritalin

The parents were bombarded by all the evidence of what they were told had to be by the professionals etc and had to face the child's problematic behavior at school etc

The parents decided to give the child ritalin but refused to accept no matter the evidence that it had to be.That never stopped them facing what is and doing what needed to be done at that specific time

BUT
They remained open to what can be, never gave up and so this way of thinking kept them vigilant always looking for other more beneficial ways to deal with the issue than ritalin and after working with the child on his needs and behavior eventually the parents stopped giving the child ritalin ,after a few monthsthey told the teachers that the child had stopped taking it who could not believe it as they were trapped in what had to be.
Obviously one has to be careful,responsible, refer to professionals and each situation is different
BUT when no matter the evidence you refuse to relate to anything as has to be you will look for and fight for what can be no matter how long it takes in any area of your life and give yourself the best chance for success