So many people try to help others with the best intention but are shocked when these people who might really need help refuse
Here is why(not talking about extreme mental issues)
1.Everyone want to feel heard and understood first
2.People hate to be judged and made to feel bad.People always remember how they felt
3.People only do things when they have good enough reasons from their point of view and not yours, to do them.
4.What people intellectually know is right does not mean in their hearts that they feel it is right.When and if they choose to let it in their hearts and feel that it is right.. change will begin
5.Try and find out what people really and truly want and may have given up on.People only go for what they decide they truly want.
6.Pay attention as to what need is being fulfilled ,seemingly negatively,by their current way of way of doing things etc
7.People always have what was originally a good intention and a reason/s behind all that they say and do no matter how it is expressed...find them and acknowledge them.
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